this guy comes in my life as a nice friend.we stay in 2 diff countries i meet him once an year when i visit my country.otherwise we r in touch thru phone & net. v share a lot.v rely on each other's advise. i always help him 4 watever guidance required frm my end abt his career, family or personal matters. eventually v realised tht we both hv been habituated 2 share so much tht v are unable 2 let each other go frm our lives even if he gets married. i dont know wat these emotions r called. in the course of time, as it started with friendshp, our families share good relationship 2. so my husband doesnt object me fm keeping in touch with him 2. my only problem is tht its hard for me 2 believe tht he loves me.bcos i am older 2 him & dont see any reason y wud he love me when i am miles apart & he has nothing 2 gain out of me. at the same time, it is never intended 2 get married. 2day 4 the first time he conveyed intention of sex with me in so many yrs.it scared me.i m so far thn y did he ask
2006-10-31 14:35:06 · 8 answers · asked by luvnlife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your cheating,If you can't work it out,give it up and then your free to be with whoever you choose.
2006-10-31 14:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to think you love someone when you don't have to deal with the daily things in life, like dirty socks on the floor, forgetting to take the garbage out, etc. Real love builds from sharing a life together, both good and bad times.It is easy to idealize someone who lives far away. Keep your feet on the ground and your head out of the clouds.
2006-10-31 22:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by thrill88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can ruin a great friendship. You need to back away
Tell him you feel a brother sister relationship and you are not about to mess up your marriage.
2006-10-31 22:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by timex846 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, you are married. this relationship with this over seas guy is going to destroy your marriage if you don't stop talking to him. period. you were friends hinting at more, but now he is trying to take it to a whole different level. so, you have two choices. ruin your marriage over a guy on the net, or stop talking to him.
2006-10-31 22:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a married women, why are you even putting yourself in this situation. God bless you, You really better think about this one.
2006-10-31 22:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gross...tell him u love yr husband and just wanna be friends...altho a guy like thats is pretty creepy and i'd sever all ties with him
2006-10-31 22:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you forget your vows before God?
2006-10-31 22:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mike S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre married. think about it. is he worth leaving your husband fjor???
2006-10-31 22:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by ang. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋