Other people will "F" up your whole life if you let them.
2006-10-31 13:40:18 · 9 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's life. We all have to deal with them. Don't let "them" defeat you. Pick yourself up from whatever dissappointment you are currently feeling. Success will come, not when you block everyone out, but when you learn how to manage the bad with the good.
2006-10-31 13:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lanna b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i gotta tell ya, its not fun living like that. you can do it, just detaching yourself from everybody around you, breaking ties, and basically not talking to anyone. but the you get to be a loner, and you end up sad and lonely. sure, stuff happens, but you roll with it and make the best of it. thats the best thing i can tell you is to just roll with it, keep on livin life like you have, and try to only let in the good people, not the ones who'll mess everything up. good luck to you.
2006-10-31 21:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by potato head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do that sure there some hurtful people out there but there are more nice than bad, just avoid the bad and realise the bad are not happy otherwise they wouldnt act like that.
Yes people will hurt but a lot of people will love you and care just be a bit stronger, im trying to work on it.
Be proud and dont shut your heart you will miss out on a lot. just listen to your heart and intutuion it will never let you down.
2006-10-31 21:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by sexygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that there is no such thing as an absolutely safe choice. In order to move ahead, you have to step out into the traffic sometime.
Not everybody is F'd up.
2006-10-31 21:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats the point of living then? You'll be a loner with no reason to live. Be careful, about who you mix with, but there are certain risks you need to take.
2006-10-31 21:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by jelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
other people can only f up your life if you let them. be strong and independent. care but do not let careing get you manipulated. don't shut yourself down life is too short and too precious darlin
2006-10-31 23:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, yes, but even when you try and be an absolute recluse and shut people out, that one will wiggle in and make you realize that you have shut a lot of good out and haven't necessarily shut out all the jerks.
2006-10-31 21:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
now thats what I am talkin' about!!!!irritating people all over the place, I know how yu feel!!!! you cant get away from the dumas$#@!!
2006-10-31 22:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, just never tell everyone your secrets!!!!
2006-10-31 21:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋