Was it difficult to remarry and why ? Any experiences ?
2006-10-31 13:40:09 · 7 answers · asked by Bachelor boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's harder to trust, and sometimes men come with one thing in their mind...
2006-10-31 13:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone I know got married to the guy she happened to be dating at the time because her ex-husband (father of her 3 kids) got married. It turned out badly, caused more harm than good both emotionally for her and the kids and financially.
I think whether or not you stay single depends on a lot of factors. For example, how long has it been since you were divorced, what kind of relationship (in a business sense) do you have with your ex husband (is he going to make your life hell and take you to court if he doesn't like your new man?), how do your kids feel about the potential new spouse, and lastly why are you getting married.
Think long and hard about those things and more. (In addition to the questions you should ask yourself before getting married in the first place, like questions on money, more kids, where to live, etc.) I wouldn't recommend getting re-married within 2 years of getting divorced, one to get over the ex and another to get to know the new guy. After that, it's do-able, just be careful, for your kids' sake as well as your own.
2006-10-31 13:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have stayed single because I have not found anyone that I choose to spend the rest of my life with. I believe marriage should be taken very seriously. Being single is fun, no one to answer to, i do what I want when I want. not a problem. I also really enjoy my own company. Nothing like being single. God bless However, I did not get a divorce my husband died. But still for now have no desire to be married, maybe one day.
2006-10-31 13:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not female but my parent divorced and my mom never remarried cause she felt that if abusive once what would stop the next guy from doing it aswell.She raised 4 kid's and we all turned out well she still is single but never regrets her choice as the 4 of us kid's were her top priority in life
2006-10-31 16:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by rsbalent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married 10 years and have been divorced for 5. I'm still single because I love my independence and I don't want to have to answer to anybody.
2006-10-31 13:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been single by choice for 15 years.
Independence is nice.
Raising your kids to your standards and only yours is nice.
Not having to deal with in-laws?
Priceless.
2006-10-31 17:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes many. Some men are so bad some women will never try again
2006-10-31 13:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋