I'm pregnant and feeling sexy is not what am feeling, I'm 7th months pregnant and the bigger am getting the harder it is to feel sexy. Even trying on sexy outfits for my husband doesn't work because some things he wants me to wear won't fit me :( And i feel because this is our frist child together that being pregnant the first time is very hard to have sex, i feel he doesn't think am sexy..but to be sexy is hard to do when you cannot get rid of the belly I know lots of women go through this how did you do it!? with out going crazy,please help i would like me and my husband to see me sexy...and able to have sex..
2006-10-31 13:37:36 · 10 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
BEING PREGNANT AND SEXY IS A MINDSET. SINCE YOU ARE HAVING YOUR HUSBANDS BABY THEN HE SHOULD AUTOMATICALLY THINK YOU ARE SEXY AND YOU ARE A GODDESS. WHEN I WAS PREGNANT I DIDNT CARE IF I FELT SEXY BECAUSE I WAS ALWAYS HORNY.
HOWEVER WHEN YOU ARE PREGNANT YOU CANNOT HAVE SEX LIKE YOU DID WHEN YOU WEREN'T. IT IS HARDER. IM SURE THAT YOUR HUSBAND UNDERSTANDS. MY ADVICE IS TO MAKE SURE THAT YOUR MAN TURNS YOU ON AND YOU NEED TO SHOW HIM THAT. IF YOU ARE HORNY YOU NEED TO LET HIM KNOW BUT ONLY DO WHAT YOU CAN DO. UNFORTUNATELY ITS NOT GOING TO BE AN ACROBATIC SESSION OR GYMNASTICS CLASS. HAHA. ALL THAT MATTERS IS IF YOU HAVE A HEALTHY APPETITE FOR SEX WITH YOUR MAN THEN YOU SHOULD BE ALL SET. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-31 13:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lana H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let yourself off the hook for not feeling sexy right now. You're going through lots of changes both physically and emotionally. Then, take things slow but talk with your husband. You might find out he finds you incredibly sexy but is afraid to say anything because it might turn you off. But many men find pregnant women very much a turn-on. So take time to just be with each other, relax, and see what happens.
2006-10-31 21:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can completely understand how you feel. I am also seven months pregnant with our first child. I have tried on sexy clothes and it don't help at all. I guess this is just something that we have to deal with. I figure after I have the baby and things get settled I will start to feel sexy again. Good luck, hopefully it helps that to know that you are not the only one felling this way.
2006-10-31 22:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnant women very sexy, but some men don't. I date a pregnant woman before because her husband was uninterested in her. He's missing out and I had her all for myself. I hope she will get pregnant again
2006-11-01 04:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm willing to bet he sees by far sexier than you think, I felt the same way... But tell him.. talk to him about how you feel..He'll understand that right now you need to comforted, especially the reassurance at this time... Open up, hopefully that will work... As for you.. I was once told that a pregnant woman is the most beautiful woman in the world... Pregnancy shows you at your most frail, it shows you being completely feminine, you & only you are the one to carry y'alls child, does it get any better than that! Cheer up...!
2006-10-31 21:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lane's Mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you then you are everything to him even sexy...
If you dont feel sexy and it's hard to even think sexy at this point then aim for cute. Cute is always sexy too.
2006-10-31 21:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my answer to that is "why put your self through that" he married you for who you are not because of your size, remember you are going to give him something more beautiful and precious than u can imagine! and u only have 2mnts left. Then the work really starts, so until then relax girlfriend. I was 115pd got preg. went 200 imagine that I was a rolly polly but good memories (PS I am now back to 115) to don't worry be happy!!!!! sunnydays
2006-10-31 21:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX!!!
Your body is different and your horons are out of control. If you feel in the mood, try a different position that doesn't press on the belly, and quit worrying about outfits. He loves you and knows that you wont be pregnant forever, if he doesn't understand that you just don't feel like it, then he's a pig who needs his *** kicked.
2006-10-31 21:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your hormones are going nuts on you girl! It's normal! Just try your best to relax. Take a nice warm (not hot) bath and just think about how nice it is to be a woman.
2006-11-01 06:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it
2006-10-31 21:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by Raina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋