ok what should i do, my parents just split up and i am in a dilema, go to my dads house to give candy or stay in my moms department, after school she told me that it was ok that i go tio my dads that she just wanted me to be happy, and now my dad just called and asked if i was going to help him, i sayid yes since it was already the plan and now my mom is all pised and screaming at me cuz i am going and all, she is f***ing blackmailing me emotionaly, i already told my dad i was going and he should be now at costo buying candy, what should i do.?!!?
2006-10-31 13:25:40 · 9 answers · asked by Poseidon 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Halloween
Get your parents together just long enough to tell them to stop using you as a damn pawn. Nobody deserves to be treated like this. Make sure they know how upsetting this is to you. If they have any concern for you whatsoever, they'll stop this nonsense.
2006-10-31 13:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by solarius 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, learn to spell. Secondly realize what blackmail means, your mom isn't blackmailing you, she's just upset. Just go to your dads house, your mom will get over it, I'm sure she's a big lady and can handle one night without you. Your parents aren't going to be acting like themselves for a while yet so just stick it out and they'll come around.
2006-10-31 21:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it depends on which parent you are living with as they are the ones that make the rules. but if you told your dad that you would help him go ahead and do it and tell your mom that you said that you would do something for some one and you need to honor your word
2006-10-31 21:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by kristikay1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God that's rough. I would say Mom, you taught me to keep my word. I made a promise to Dad. If you don't want me to go, you need to tell him because I promised him. It's not right you are putting me in the middle.
I am sorry. It's really not fair to you.
2006-10-31 21:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hang on! Your Mom initially said she was O.K. with your going to your Dad's. If she didn't mean it, she shouldn't have said it. She's certainly old enough to know better!
Remind her of that as you go out the door!
2006-10-31 21:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your dads you already gave your word - a man even a young one never goes back on his word.
spend tomorrow with your mom
2006-10-31 21:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your Dad's. Tell your mother that you're sorry she's upset, but you can't be in two places at once. Don't give back the nastiness she is giving in your direction. And I'm really sorry this happened to you.
2006-10-31 21:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by Esther 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom to f off. that out of line. no mother should make one feel guilty for being with dad.
tell her to get a life and go to your dads.
2006-10-31 21:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by gYPSY B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your dad's you already said you would and besides your mom said you could go in the first place and she has no right to pissed
2006-10-31 21:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by soccergirl912005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋