Ok so there is this really hot boy that goes to my school and he is always at my friends house. I have never had a boyfriend before so I have no idea how to act around him. I dont want to act like a slut around him but I don't want him to think I am shy either. He talks to me when I'm over there and sometimes my friend gets jealous. I know she doesn't mind that much because she has even asked me if I want her to ask him out for me. I would accept the offer but I have no idea how to act around a boy. Does anyone have any advice? This are 15 year olds you are talking about so nothing gross please. Best answer gets 10 points.
2006-10-31 13:07:35 · 13 answers · asked by LindsayS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be yourself! Don't try and be what you think he will like, boys can see through an act. If you just act how you would around anyone else, it will be fine. Just have fun and even though you will have nerves, it will get easier as time goes by. You will be fine!
2006-10-31 13:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by pinkboopy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try, to act natural, sounds simple, but when your 15 & boys are involved, it's not so easy. to do,s smile,laugh if the joke is funny,tell him something a bout yourself, ie fav movies music, subject at school. Ask him questions if he knows a lot a bout something, appear interested, and ask for his "expert", advise a bout it. Don'ts, chew with your mouth open, finger curl your hair, giggle when nothing is funny,use profanity, or tell nasty jokes,gossipe, or put down other girls negitivly. I know thats a lot to remember,just try to be mature and act like a lady. Think of a celeberty you admire, and behave like you think she would. When I was 15 I would use Adrey Hepburn, I thought she was classy, but fun.
2006-10-31 21:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like yourself. Just remember to make sure that you flirt, and that they know that if they want you they'll have to work a little bit to get you. If you act slutty and sh*t, all he'll think is that you'd be a nice one nighter. And yes, even 15 year old boys think about it.
2006-10-31 21:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by Training Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a polite, feminine, respectful 15 year girl. Just be you!
If he doesn't like you for being any, or all of the above, then you're too good for him and he is not worth your time and effort.
Enjoy your age and time, don't grow up too fast for the sake of getting the attention of boys. There's plenty of time for that later in life.
2006-10-31 21:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be yourself. Act like you do around your friends. Talk about whatever he's interested in. Guys like it when you seem really interested in what they have to say. If he starts talking about something he's interested in try thinking of questions to ask him about it.
Good luck!
2006-10-31 21:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Act exactly like you do around your friends. Be yourself! Be silly!
Be crazy! Be loud! Have fun, he will like you for who you are.
2006-10-31 21:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by earinfection 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. Make them chase you. You gotta be mean. That's the only way. I mean you know when to be nice but the majority of the time keep your nose up in the air.
2006-10-31 21:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by curiouspie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself. You dont want him to like you for something you are not afterall.
Just be confident, be happy, smile and show your intrest in him. Touch his arm when he talks to you. Meet his gaze.
2006-10-31 21:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself!Don't try and be someone your not.Just act like you would if you were around your friends
2006-10-31 21:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by shiloh jolie-pitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a lady. It is ok to be funny!
2006-10-31 21:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋