I am in Highschool. I have no friends.. At lunch I stand bymyself with no one to talk to.. How do I make friends? I'm really lonely.. :(
2006-10-31 12:53:14 · 9 answers · asked by Fyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Start with the persons in class. Find someone that you think has same interest with you and start a conversation by asking a question. Even if the question is, "what time do you have?" Pay someone a compliment and then go on about your business. They will remember that....and you.
Ask yourself what about you is turning people away instead of drawing people to you. Maybe nothing, maybe alot...you be honest.
I am sure that if you start with finding out what others are interested in and joining, you will find a friend. The principle of friendship is that if you want a friend, be a friend.
2006-10-31 12:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by annettetyler77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question.
I am sorry that you are feeling that way. I would suggest to join a school club. Then you need to talk to the people there, in the club, and make personal connections. Be friendly, outgoing and act secure, even if you don't feel that way (people like that in a person)
Say you join the yearbook club, you start talking to the people there and then someone, lets say, mentions a movie that you like. You say you like that too and talk about it. That is how friendships start, over something simple like a common interest.
High school is hard and just remember that when high school is over its not like that in the real world, all clickish. Its A LOT easier
2006-10-31 21:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by CaTT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats exactly how it was for me in high school, ive just graduated. Kids can be really mean and stuck up. You could try finding a friend online, then every evening look forward to talking to them. They can still be considered a friend. or you could try starting a conversation with someone, or a few people. You might get to know them and become friends. I know it isnt as easy as it sounds, I couldnt do it, and i didnt have one friend all through high school. as well as middle school.
2006-10-31 20:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friends are made through shared interests. And sometimes in high school (in the day to day) that connection cannot be established because it's a lot of putting on airs. So gravitate toward your hobbies and find friends there.
2006-10-31 20:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Omni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who looks friendly and just begin to chat with them! If you're about to buy something for lunch you could ask them, "Hey, have you tried the pizza here? Is it any good?" and then introduce yourself and just start chatting.
2006-10-31 20:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is not new that is normal , if you see that no one want to talk with you or if they watch you and dont talk that mean that they are afraid to talk to you, you just wait until someone come to talk to u or if you see like somebody acting strange to talk to you just talk to them you will see or just make conversation with somebody that you see cool .
2006-10-31 21:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Hindu_ Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask someone to sit down at there table start a conersation, join a school sport or something.
2006-10-31 20:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can click on my avatar and we could become computer freinds i dont have many friends either.
2006-10-31 20:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by legion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a club....chess,dance,photo ,or any scool comity
2006-10-31 20:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋