I am not the same anymore says my husband?

Question

I was size 0 when my husband met me, In one year after having our child, I am now size 12
He want's me to be back to size 0 but I can't do it....my hips have expended and so has everything else.

I need some advice on how to cope or be his pin up girl....please help thanks.

I don't have any health problems. I am healthy.....

Answer 1

Isn't it sad how men are anymore? If you want to lose the weight for you, then go for it! But never ever do it for the guy because they will always set the bar higher for you. From experience, when I first started going out with my bf I was at my heaviest{but I never had any kids} I was 150lbs and about a size 9-11. I lost the weight for me and 2 years later I'm 125lbs and a size 2-5, smaller than I was when we first met,2 years b4 we were dating, and he's still not happy! Like I said I wasn't doing it for him but even though I lost so much he's still not satisfied. I'm not saying don't be with your husband because he's a selfish jerk, cuz most guys are, but don't do anything you don't want to! Dress sexy for him and show him that your curves are just as nice as your slim figure. If he doesn't stop then pick at his insecurities and see how he likes it! Sit him down and tell him how this makes you feel and if you feel like losing weight you will but what you want and can make a real goal for, not his "pin-up girl" who turns into a size 0 magically after having a kid. It's your body don't let any1 tell you what to do with it. If you need more advice, let me know. I hope I helped and good luck!
Ps: I lost my weight from stopping eating when I'm full. I'm a "waste not want not" type of gal and don't like to waste food, but that adds up. Just eat small portions, it makes a world of difference. Also try wheat products, they are really good! I love wheat spaghetti it tastes just like regular and it's so much better for you. Get cereal with wheat in it, I believe gm are all wheat. And wheat bread,obviously, it's so0o good toasted! Also try to stay away from fast food, I know that's hard being a mom but if you must, grab a salad or chicken instead of a burger.

Answer 2

That's sad. A size 0 is a nothing. All you can do is try to keep fit, eat a healthy diet, and if you're not totally exhausted from the baby, try to keep your hair and makeup looking nice.
If he makes comments about your size, just tell him if "size doesn't matter" to you, why should it to him?

Answer 3

You better tell him to get a life. He cannot make you into something that you are not. If he really loves you he'll love you just the way you are unless you are having health problems from the weight.

Answer 4

break ^ with him and get with someone esle