she gets called a whore or a slut?!?!? thats NOT FAIR!!!
2006-10-31 12:32:49 · 16 answers · asked by Dragonfly :) 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
manners and being called a whore are two different things by the way. and so what if a girl can have sex easyer than a guy, that doesnt make her a whore
2006-10-31 12:48:06 · update #1
Well if you tell everyone your sleeping around it's bound to come up, it's best to keep your 'activities' to yourself. Always practice safe sex.
2006-10-31 12:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by rexy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree it's unfair but women have come a long way so keep the faith!!! Also...I know quite a few guys that have slept around a lot and I've lost a lot of respect for them. In highschool people called them "man whores" and it wasn't a good thing, believe me. A couple of them have kids now that are 8 years old (am 25 now). Just remember that even though it might not be as obvious people still have their inner opinions of people and that men are not excluded from that. In addition, there is a double standard with the opposite issue: when a guy is a virgin the view is that there must be something wrong with him but when a girl is a virgin it's hot!!! Maybe this cancels that out?
2006-10-31 22:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, trust me, at least when you're MY AGE, which is still only 25-TWICE, they're sluts, whores, and stay away from's!!!!
And I learned not long ago that there's a difference between a 'slut', whore, and whatever...so actually being called a SLUT isn't really all that bad!!!
And let them say what they may about you, why do you care what other people think and say about you anyway? The only people you really should care about what they say/think of you are of course your family/loved ones, but most importantly, YOU!!
Let them say what they may. You're allowed to call as many guys as you want sluts, man-whores, whatever you want. It's a free society still, sort-of anyway. As soon as that idiot's out of the White House!!
Hey, can't help but express my opinions on THAT!!
I calls 'em as I sees 'em.
Been there. Done it. Lived it. Trust me.
2006-10-31 23:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by raquelha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hypocracy - there is a sexist double standard; if a man gets to have sex with a lot of women, he's considered very macho; if a woman has sex with a lot of men, she's considered a whore.
The funny thing about that is - those "machos" must be sleeping with those "whores", but it's OK for him and not for her.
I always thought that was stupid and unfair.
2006-11-01 11:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why but for some reason this old double standard has been around for forever. You're right..it's not fair.. but . think of it this way..the less sleeping around you do the higher you can hold your head up. You can't be accused of being a whore if you aren't acting like one. Men on the other hand.. I don't know about all women..but frankly, I don't think too highly of men who sleep around.
2006-10-31 20:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by sallylip2000_ca 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's equal criticism for both I think. 'props' is a deflection b/c guys are thinking it's wrong, but the girl went for it. Guys make jokes about the other guys behavior and the joke is their way of expressing the disapproval. However, guys are very direct in calling girls names for their behavior. It's easier to get away with because guys don't fear the physical harm from the girls.
2006-10-31 20:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by Omni 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dispite womans lib acts and all that. women still will not approach guys freely and are not thought of as sexual creatures like guys are. the only way the doubt standard will change is if all the girls go out and say "get it alot from alot of guys and am proud of it" once that happens society will desencitize and accept it
2006-10-31 20:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if a guy went to ANY girl and just said "do u wanna f u c k"? what are his chances she will say yes?........now if a girl did the same what are her chances hes gonna say no? its easier for girls to get laid cuz no guy will turn it down unless hes gay and or u offer him a guy......how about this ? why do guys have to open the car door for her and pull out a females chair for her to sit down y doesnt it happen the other way around? as soon as u figure that out u will see why women get called that and guys get props for it
2006-10-31 20:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by bigboss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well its because we live in a double standard world. They think that its alright for a man to have sex with anybody but not a woman.
2006-10-31 20:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by manang bruka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age men and women never say that about a woman.
2006-10-31 20:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋