This guy sucks my penis and his teeth hurt my foreskin. He can't kiss very well and he makes loud groaning noises that really piss me off....
2006-10-31 12:18:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh wow, ouch!
Well, I would say, "Baby, your teeth hurt my penis, can you try to curl your lips around your teeth more?"
But really, it sounds like he just sucks in general. Some people just arent good lovers. Ive had a few. Ive tried to tell them about it, but it only upsets them and either I get no sex, or its even wierder because they are thinking about it to much. I ended up leaving a relationship for this reason alone once. Maybe thats what u need to do. A really good, "meant to be" lover will not need to work on anything, it just works out.
2006-10-31 12:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you been seeing him for very long? Are you happy with him, apart from these things? If you really care for him and want to stay with him, then I think you will have to simply tell him that there are a couple of things you would like to discuss. Hopefully he will take it well. Who knows, maybe he might have things he has wanted to discuss with you, too. In any event, it will happen sooner or later, so make the best of it and hope for the best result. Good luck.
2006-10-31 20:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by SB 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just use a sandwich approach.Say something nice and then slip your comment and then again praise him for something.
Praise doesnot mean u have to say a big story even suggestive sounds could help.
2006-10-31 20:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Rizwan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he trying too hard...
get him to relax...reassure him..talk to him about it..
try something like..
"come here lemme show you what I like, and how I like it," teach him how to touch you...how to kiss...suck..
let him know that cheering is great on the football field,... but in the bedroom..exhausting...
with a little time and effort, you might turn Mr. Ho-hum...into Mr. Gimmie-some..
If that doesn't work..tell him the next time he uses his teeth, your gonna use the blender...
2006-10-31 22:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by Matt Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you would like to try some new things. then describe how you would like to have your penis sucked and show him how you would like to kiss. he will probably enjoy it as a new experience instead of taking it as a criticism
2006-10-31 21:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by jusme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him hey honey how about u do to me what I do to u and show him how u like it done...or tellhim I like to do things slow I don't want rough sex.
2006-10-31 23:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by M.L.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a book with new positions and experiment!
2006-10-31 20:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that we try different things in bed like toys and different positions
2006-10-31 20:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by Merrick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think there really is no good way to bring this up nicely unless he is really young and inexperienced.
2006-10-31 20:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by Spyder 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you cant" hack it so you're gonna get your jacket"
2006-10-31 20:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋