I used to do that and I know some people who does that
(I'm not talking about anything dirty!)
2006-10-31 12:16:37 · 14 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Sometimes I do to get them out of my face.
2006-10-31 12:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by Veganite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually I was not thinking anything dirty til ya mentioned it! LOL
No I think that we all do that at one time or other to try and please the person that is trying to help you. Sometimes you appreciate that they are trying to help but there are times when no one can help and you have to get through whatever the situation is you are in at your own pace in your own time. It may be hard for other people to understand sometimes but it's ok to not be ready to feel better...
2006-10-31 20:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they do, I definately know that I do. I am depressed, but when someone is trying to help me, or someone wants to spend time with me, I always act happy. I can put on a great "happy-face" and put on a happy song and dance, just so that people think that I am fun to spend time with. I hate to be a lone and no one likes someone who is always down.
2006-10-31 20:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by golfgirl2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on helper except for few cases were your dealing with total phony that gets off deceiving. Will say it usually happens when helper is unknowingly most times trying to help themselves more then other person, and in such cases helpee becomes helper.
2006-10-31 20:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mister2-15-2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it often, cause people think they are helping by asking how you are and how they can help but sometimes it makes me feel worse. So I bottle my feelings up and try to pretend I am happy.
2006-10-31 22:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by DownAndOut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, it could due to the fact that you are too suspicious?
Perhaps you have done that before, but it doesn't mean others will....in fact, because you have done it before, it makes you more suspicious to others reaction.....
and I don't fake happiness.... i prefer to speak up if there is any issue
2006-10-31 20:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by Com Nerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's because they don't want that help and they don't want to offend the person trying to help, so they fake happiness to make the person think their mission is OVER.
2006-10-31 20:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by MyPreshus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly, yes, sometimes it seems the nicest thing to do - but then neither really are helped.
2006-10-31 20:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by falling leaves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it all the time to avoid drawing too much attention to myself.
2006-10-31 20:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by Whats your problem? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i'm famous for doing this
2006-10-31 20:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by Boop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋