My bf and i are sexually active....he has been the only one i have been with and felt intamite with. i was wondering if there is any fast way of reaching orgasm since hes pretty quick on the draw, and ive never gotten there...besides doing it myself.
2006-10-31 11:58:59 · 7 answers · asked by Whats your problem? 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Lots of foreplay is key. Have him touch and explore you before you have intercourse. :) And he doesn't have to stop even then! Show him what makes you feel good... guide his hands; tell him what you like. There are also certain positions that can stimulate you to orgasm. Some where he can touch you during the act to get you off, some where he wouldn't have to. Check out http://www.cosmopolitan.com or run a Google search on "Kama Sutra". (Beware some of the sites that may come up there though!)
2006-10-31 12:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by cartmansmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other ways to reach orgasm besides intercourse. You should suggest that he make you happy before himself. Show him what you do
2006-10-31 20:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend a lot of time on foreplay. Get yourself very revved-up. Also, the majority of women can't come from intercourse alone. Get yourselves into a position where you or he can stimulate your clit directly.
2006-10-31 20:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres a way to boost your orgaism time, if he takes his thumbs, and possitions them 2inches from your hip bone, at a 45 degreee angle towards your belly button, and gently presses in when he thrusts, itll put pressure on the cervix, allowing you to climax faster, and have bigge,r longer orgasisms.
2006-10-31 20:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by hooked_ona_8SecondRide 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get him those condoms that desensitizes his penis so he's not a two hump chump. Or tell him masterbate at least a few hours before you do it. Or you can have sex with someone else that has stamina unlike your wussy boyfriend.
2006-10-31 20:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you need to talk to him and tell him that a women is like a slow cooker - you have to take time to get a really good meal ;)
open communtication and he needs to slow down and to quit being so selfish
2006-10-31 20:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Rosie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He needs to remember you are there. Whats he think hes on his own? Tell him your not a magazine!!! Good Luck!
2006-10-31 20:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by linda m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋