I really seek and value brothership. I guess it has to do with the fact that I never had a brother...just 2 sisters...I dunno. Seems nowadays, two guys can barely hang out together without being assumed gay.
2006-10-31 11:47:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hmm...maybe I should've rephrased the details...I don't really care what other people think of it so much...Mainly just the individual dudes i'm friends with. I am not shallow like that, honestly.
2006-10-31 12:01:56 · update #1
Not weird at all.
In places where folks do not have sexuality hang-ups, VERY close male bonding is the norm rather than the exception.
LOL it is practical too - at 2am is it going to be a girlfriend or a male friend who will be propping up the bar with you while you discuss the importance of life's mysteries..... "kebab or chinese when we leave here?"
It is a pity folks make assumptions - but if you are able to rise above it - and your friends don't give a toss either, then just enjoy your male friendships and "sod 'em" to the people who would raise an eyebrow :)
2006-10-31 12:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mark T 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless the two of you are running off and playing with one another in dark alleys... then there is NOTHING wrong with having bloke friends.
Go find a pub, get a drink and play pool!
Jeez! The whole world is so worried about what 'other people think'.
2006-10-31 19:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by frozendreamer1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with having friends!! Don't be like the masses, be yourself. I think straight girls like the mystery of trying to figure out if a guy is gay or straight. Keep close to your friends and be happy!
2006-10-31 19:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about other peoples, Males can hang out just as much as females do, There is nothing wrong with that..... Alot of females are into drama not me I prefere to hang out with males instead.
2006-10-31 19:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not weird. i am sraight (althogh iv had experiences with the same sex) and when i hang out with my best friend a lot most people assume us to b lovers and homosexual. i admit i hav had feelings for them but everyone has strong feelings for their best friend, especially as close and we are. so no not weird. in my opinion normal. u like the acceptance and wats wrong with wanting to b accepted?
2006-10-31 19:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Now, seriously. It's no big deal. A lot of guys are like that. Let people think what they want. What they think doesn't affect you. And if you matter to them at all, it won't be a big deal with them. It doesn't make you wierd in any way.
2006-10-31 19:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by completlyinsane963 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of truth to what you're saying.....but remember, you've got a really good friend there.
Don't worry about what others think or say...cherish your friendship! There's a reason why you're buddies.
Congratulations!
2006-10-31 19:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by Canadian Ken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen your not weird. It's good to have that feeling, it doesn't make you gay you just like the friendship of men. Alot of str8 guys are like that. Like you said it's brothership, it doesn't have to be sexual.
2006-10-31 19:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by aza_424 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are not weird, it's normal to have close male friends. it's a shame that people always want to mess with other people's relationship and friendships. don't worry what anyone else says.
2006-10-31 20:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by Spyder 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not at all most men enjoy the company of other men, and what's wrong with someone thinking you and your friend are Gay, who cares there is nothing wrong with being Gay, right.
2006-10-31 19:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋