my best friend keeps ditching me is he really my friend i mean when we hang out we have fun
2006-10-31 10:38:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How long have you been friends? Is this a sudden change in their behavior or have they always been undependible? If you really do value the friendship, talk to them and tell them how you feel.
2006-10-31 10:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by McAbby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your best friend has some issues of his own.
Usually when someone ditches you it is becuase they don't want to be seen to be friends with you.
You sound like a nice person who doesn't deserve to be treated that way.
You could try asking him why if you feel up to it. If it were me I would make sure I got to know a few other people as well so that if the friendship did come to an end you're not going to be stuck without friends.
When you are young your friendships come and go a lot. Don't worry too much!! There is nothing wrong with you. It is just a part of growing up. People grow up at different speeds and sometimes their friendships change because of this.
2006-10-31 18:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by PickleBunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean ditching you perhaps he is busy or do you mean falling out with you. If it becomes a problem find another friend.
2006-10-31 18:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have fun when u hang out, but wat, does he ditch u like when ur in public? he cannot be a tried and true friend if he ditches u. a friend is always there for u, no matter wat, and they don't leave u. i had a friend "ditch me" once...kinda...and we're not friends anymore. but that's not anyone's fault. i just didn't want to be her friend because if she ditches me, she's not a real friend. but do what u think is best in ur heart and good luck
2006-10-31 18:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♥#1 Miley Cyrus Fan♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too short to have "kind of" friends. If someone makes you feel like poo, why would you want to be around them anyway? Surround yourself with people who love you and never hurt your feelings like that and your life will be a lot happier. Warning: people like this are hard to find, so don't get dissappointed if you make and lose friends often cuz they just don't mesh with you.
2006-10-31 18:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by superstar_81882 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a real friend to me. He just hangs out with you when he has nothing better to do.
2006-10-31 18:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean he's not your friend. He's probably just not good with sorting out his priorites.
Then again, maybe he DOES have his priorities straight and he just has some things he needs to sort out before he hangs out with you.
Best way to find out is to ask him.
2006-10-31 18:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forgot to mention your age? ..... life isn't about people dutching your friends. And down the road when we have fun and hang out......we tend to wanna be around people we like.
2006-10-31 18:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by iamME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think your friend is leaving you? Don't be mad just talk to your friend. Maybe something bad happened in your friends life...... like I said talk to your friend and say. "If you have something to do then don't make plans with me!
2006-10-31 18:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by Kimikila X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, maybe he's going thorough some stuff and just doesn't know how to ask for help. If he's your best friend you need to be there for him.
2006-10-31 18:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋