we've been friends since elementary school but now....it's getting hard.
don't call me a bad person.....
to quote peter griffin:
"I mean, I can handle ugly, but this is like CIRCUS ugly."
Really.
2006-10-31 09:50:34 · 32 answers · asked by stephanie_the_fish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
haha that's sad...give her a make over and i doubt she can be that bad but over all shes your friend no need to turn your back on a friend that you have known for that long just simply help the poor girl out don't just tell her "hey your just so fugly that i cant stand to look at you any longer the pain in my eyes is getting horrible and i have to let you go"..the answer is to help her look better....help help help...and how ugly is she really or say she is..good luck
2006-10-31 09:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just a word to all those people who suggest a makeover. Anybody with more than two working brain cells will be just as hurt by that offer as they would be by being called "ugly" If she is really that unattractive, she more than likely is already aware of it, and believe me, it hurts.
If you are really her friend, you will have to wait until she brings up the subject in some fashion and then offer to help her improve her looks. If you just can't bear being seen with her, then do her a favor, start drifting apart and let her find people who appreciate her, not her looks. Then you can go on your own merry, superficial, selfish way.
2006-10-31 10:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by pessimoptimist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have room for improvement in their appearance but it is not right to say a friend is ugly.
I look out for my friends (as they look out for me) and sometimes brutal honesty is what I (they) need. Of course, I would be deeply devasted if my friends used the words ugly. The word is ugly is just that: ugly. It's one of those words that just doesn't appeal to many. Try other words!!!
A makeover might be fun only if it's something you're both doing. Don't just do the makeover to "fix" your friend. Maybe more time together will help you to see beyond her appearance. Ask her if she might be up to it. If she doesn't want to do it then obviously she is comfortable with her appearance and therefore you should be as well.
2006-10-31 10:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by isitlove20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hanging out with someone for the looks is wrong. If you want to be popular, don't do it for the looks. I mean think of it this way, if she's so ugly then people will focus more on you then them, i mean heaven forbid you're prettier than someone! And let me guess your in Junior High right, or is it middle school now, just by the sounds of it, you sound like a seventh grader
2006-10-31 10:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by My dad ate my homework 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you should ask yourself if she can help being ugly. If it is because she is gaining too much weight, has bad hygeine, dresses really bad, or has a bad attitude that makes her ugly then you should just find a nice way to break it to her. Since it is hard to find a nice way to say it, just be ready to explain yourself when she gets upset. If she is simply a lost cause then you shouldn't say anything because thats mean, and she probably already has low self esteem. In that case you should just gently break free from hanging out with her if you really can't handle how she looks, but in that case maybe it has something to do with how you feel about yourself. If on the other hand she is a fat bi*#h and is mean to others, well then just let her have it.
2006-10-31 09:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Dan s 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some friend you are! People like you make me sick! Your so called friend is better off without you!!
Let me guess, you are the most beautiful flower on the planet! Not with a personality as judgmental as you have! You are what I'd call CIRCUS UGLY!!
2006-10-31 09:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'll call you a bad person anyway. Just the way you state the question shows your ignorance. It would be one thing if you asked how you could help her become prettier- not just call her ugly.
She may be ugly outside- but I bet she isn't as ugly as you inside.
She is better off without you as a friend.
2006-10-31 09:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
TO A FRIEND THATS JUST MEAN! you never tell a friend shes ugly! u simply say can i give u a make over! in the process u do her eyesbrows and her make up and ask her if u wanna go shopping together sometime!
2006-10-31 09:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you are not her friend do her a favor and move on out of her life shame on you for being so superficial, if she really is that homely and you are a true friend help her with a makeover or something but to tell her she is ugly on the outside is very mean
2006-10-31 09:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should try to be nice and offer her a makeover!! Talk to her without being mean and her appearance shouldn't matter to you!! How would you feel if you were in her shoes? No one is perfect and there are ways to tell a friend something without hurting their feelings!! Why do you think that she's soo ugly? Encourage her to do things that will improve her appearance like certain clothing, makeup, facial expressions that she should avoid, and facials that will improve her skin and beauty!!
Friends, real friends, are hard to find and really rare!!
2006-10-31 09:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by angellove 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋