okay my friend went out with this guy for like a week and then broke up with him. I really like this guy and he's one of my friends now because of their relationship. Is it alright to like/go out with ur friends ex bf when they are the one who broke up with him?
2006-10-31 09:45:31 · 24 answers · asked by missprep92 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok seriously its ue choice. I married my best friends ex. And believe it or not we are still best friends and he just puts up with her because of me lol.
2006-10-31 11:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything, talk to your friend first.
Think about your friend's feelings about it. Also, put yourself in her situation. If you were dating a guy and broke up with him, how would you feel if your friend started dating your ex? No one ever puts themselves in the other persons place and that's why people end up getting hurt. Just something to think about.
Good luck with your decision.
2006-10-31 17:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by JoesWifee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not usually, no. It's kind of an unwritten rule that you don't date your friend's ex. Even if you ask her and she says it's fine, it can turn out to not be fine.
There's nothing saying you can't go ahead and do it anyway, but be prepared for the possibility that it will end your friendship and could destroy the friendship that you have with the ex-boyfriend as well.
I say... don't date him, and keep them both as your (platonic) friends.
2006-10-31 17:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean its okay if ur friend is okay with it. Tell her how u feel about the relationship and go for it. Best of Luck
2006-10-31 17:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually girls do not go out with guys that their friends dated.
(Chicks before *****).
Think about it:
Is your freind a good freind of yours?
~~Cause u wouldn't want to lose a freindship over a boy. Because in the long run, its usually your freinds who will stick with you and boyfreinds will eventually brake up with you, or you will decide to brake up with them.
and its not like your planning on marrying this guy or anything, so I would just not go out with him.
Also, if you still really like him, you could always ask your freind how she feels about freinds dating their ex'es.
Good luck!
Make the right choice!
2006-10-31 20:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by La La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask your friend if it's ok with her. If it's ok with her than yes, but if not then time to let it go. Oh you might want to wait a week before you ask. Only 1 week is kinda soon.
Good Luck!
2006-10-31 17:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it was only a week, then it is OK. If it was for several months or a year or more, it would be more difficult. If you friend does not have a problem with it, then it doesn't matter.
2006-10-31 17:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you've expressed these feelings to your friend (The one that dumped him) and get her to tell you it's allright. Then he's open game. If she's a really good friend...don't risk losing her...real friends are rare.
2006-10-31 17:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ronijn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best not to. It gets awkward in the beginning stages, and even more so if you guys break up.
2006-10-31 21:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by Aimers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darn straight you can, go ahead, if she is a true friend and cares about you and that you really need a man to have , then she should be fine.
2006-10-31 17:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋