she threatens to tell the teachers, maybe even my parents.....
2006-10-31 09:38:14 · 24 answers · asked by stephanie_the_fish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She must have been checking you out as well to see this dear....Go tell the teacher what this girl is threatening to do, and ask if they would split you both up, because she's very paranoid....
2006-10-31 09:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So I take it you're into girls?????? You didn't say whether you were checking her out because you are interested in her or if you were just checking her out (I know I'm straight as an arrow but I check other chicks out all the time, either because they have a beautiful body or I like their style or, any number of reasons). If you are into her you need to approach her in an adult fashion and apologize for checking her out, tell her that you're sorry if it made her uncomfortable and tell her that you won't let it happen again. If you're straight then you need to do pretty much the same thing but assure that you were just admiring her body or whatever reason you have for looking at her while in the showers and again, apologize for making her uncomfortable and it won't happen again, blah, blah, blah. You don't need to be intimidated by this girl though, what you did is innocent curiousity and she has no reason to threaten you with telling the teachers or your parents. You do need to prepare yourself for some nasty rumors though so just make sure you're ready for that because even if you apologize and everything seems fine I can pretty much guarantee that she is going to tell one of her friends and on and on.....you know how aweful high school girls can be to eachother. I wish you the best of luck in this situation and let's just hope that she can be mature about this but you need to clear the air with her before even worse rumors get started.
2006-10-31 09:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by sarahsmiles1222 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
.....ok, when you say "Checking her out...."
Ok, I'll word this better. Why did she think you was checking her out? You did nothing but look at her right? Girls look at other girls all the time. Just because your in the showers makes no difference right?
My 7 year old daughter walks past girls all the time. Other girls her age always seem to stare and look.....like they are always judging or admiring each other in some way.
So women are use to this by your age right?
Just pass it off as you admired her thighs or her body tone or something. You want to get an idea of how you wanted your figure to turn out..........
I dont know....I'm sorry. I used those lines in high school when I looked at girls, but they never worked for me, so I DOUBT they'd work for you.........
2006-10-31 09:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you like her, ask her out!
*grin*
Or perhaps not. This sounds like a difficult situation - you haven't told us your sexual orientation either, which makes answering your question all the more difficult! However, if you are interested in her, perhaps the reason she realised you were "Checking her out" is because she was checking you out. If you're straight, and genuinely were just admiring her (in almost a platonic way, perhaps), then tell her that. Tell her you're sorry you freaked her out, and your eyes were just wandering or something.
2006-10-31 10:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Aidan J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stephanie -
Are you attracted to her or were you just looking? I look at attractive women all the time and I'm not attracted to them.
If you are attracted to her then you need to be a little more respectful of her emotions and only "check her out" when she
is clothed. If you were just looking then there is no reason for you to feel bad. Either way, simply apologize and tell her that while you realize it was not appropriate you were just looking and it wont happen again.
2006-10-31 09:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell her you are sorry, let her know that it won't happen again. Maybe tell her you were just comparing her body to yours...that you didn't mean to offend her. Oh and stop "checking out girls in the shower".
2006-10-31 09:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by Dud 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Were you checking her out like a quick look in that direction or were you really "checking her out?" There's not much anyone can do unless you're actually bothering her. I would just try to stay away from her and if you're going to look, try not to make it obvious.
2006-10-31 09:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It all depends on your stand point. You caeither wait for her to say something to you or you can go talkk to her. if u swing that way, let her know how it is. if not then just tell you were sizing her up. We all do it from time to time, gotta know what we're competing with, right?? hope that helps
2006-10-31 09:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by africangoddess19 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all how old r u? If u r like a senior you should see a professional about your problem if your younger just say that you were just spacing out.
2006-10-31 09:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by Maddie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell that chick not to flater herself, just tell her you were'nt checking her out and stop being such a perv in the future.
2006-10-31 10:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋