if this happen 2 you,what did you do,please im hurting bad.
2006-10-31 09:34:25 · 12 answers · asked by Angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i took him 4 granted, i treated him like i knew he always was going to stay and i regret it bad, i know i want no one else.
2006-10-31 09:35:58 · update #1
thank you all for your anwers, i thought this would never happen.............i messed up
2006-10-31 09:50:15 · update #2
ill inform you on what happens
2006-10-31 10:01:33 · update #3
You can take some of these people's advice and try ur best to find other things to do to keep your mind occupied, but if u do that, it's only going to hurt even worse when u lay down to go to sleep at night.
As I saw in somebody else's answer, the best thing u can do is cry it out. It's going to hurt, but there's really nothing that u can do.
I don't know if this will help, but there's a saying that says, "If u love someone, set them free...if they come back, it was meant to be."
Everything happens in life for a reason. U learned ur lesson from this, and whether HE'S the one that comes back into your life or another man comes back into your life, u will be able to cherish that relationship...
Again, just cry & let it out. But don't waddle in it 4 too long...be able to pull yourself together and know that it's not the end of your world.
2006-10-31 09:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Immerse yourself in life!
Go volunteer at the local SPCA, join in a play at school, wash cars in your bikini on the weekends for charity money,
whatever you do - DO NOT SIT HOME AND SULK!
Get the F**K OUT OF THE HOUSE NOW!
Everyday get up, get out, and stay out!
BUT GET INVOLVED!
Do NOT go back to your house until you can tell the creep to take a flying leap!
Read a book, learn a craft, change a transmission, do something that takes focus and concentration..., and sooner than you think he'll be like this morning's corn flakes in milk too long..., soggy, wilty, and yucky tasting...
Channel that sorrow girl, channel it, damnit!
2006-10-31 09:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Number1son 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question to answerer, I was in a relationship for the same period of time, Its not easy moving on and I will tell you now you never forget your first love, All you can do is remember the good parts of the relationship and apply them to the next person you meet, I did and it worked out fine. Their is a person for all of us, he just wasn't the right one, Be thank full you are allowed to move on and find that special person who will love you but most importantly be a friend, You may know who that person is already. You will live through this believe me, and be a better person and much more focuses on what you want in a mate.
2006-10-31 10:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by kdc 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i imagine you men might want to artwork it out once you've feeling you don't want to break your relationship in basic terms because of a few woman. My mom and pa meet even as they were young children and been at the same time. considering that all that i comprehend that they both cheated. On one yet another they might chop up for a pair weeks and could not communicate over with one yet another.that they had they are united statesand down they worked by it and regarded surpassed it. you don't want to lose something that your going to omit.kk your welcome
2016-12-05 10:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by aune 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all it is going to hurt, basically you have to consider him dead(not literally)you need to mourn him like you lost him in a car crash. go out and see the world again as a single women. it's no easy way to get over a four year relationship and it will hurt like hell, so so sorry for you loss. and it might take a while, four years is a long time. i would not rush into any other relationship/ chill, go out, go on dates. it will be hard. but it can be done. i wish you the best boo.
2006-10-31 09:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by xoxoxome21@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've been there before, honestly theres is nothing that takes the pain away,you just gotta cry it out.It takes a while to get over someone but time heals everything, try to go out with your friends if that helps.
2006-10-31 09:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hun, the most painful thing is that you will get over him over time, but no matter what you do he we always be in your heart. It took me almost 2 years to get over my ex. Getting yourself busy works just a bit so go for it! Good luck hun! If you want to talk feel free to email me.
2006-10-31 09:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by Solomia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
movie nights with friends..dont be alone for a while..remember your value..it's gonna be hard..there's no easy way to get over a relationship where true deep feelings were involved..just give it time..get your mind off of things..dont go jumping into a relationship or thing with someone else right away though..but really give it time..do something else with that time..pamper yourself..lean on friends when you need em..you'd be surprised how much that helps..good luck!
2006-10-31 09:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sma 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The guy I dated for five years and was engaged to at one point was an usher in my wedding three years after we broke up for good.
2006-10-31 09:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sometimes things in life are hard to see coming and do hurt badly but for every door that close's theres another one that will open as long as you are willing to look
2006-10-31 09:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by wilco254 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋