Please help there is this guy at school who has a major crush on me and he is a total geek please give some advice on what to say to him that won't hurt his feelings!!!
2006-10-31 09:26:04 · 27 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is a scientifically proven fact that Geeks are the best lovers, are more successful, and tend to be more loyal to their partner. Perhaps you can jazz up hiz style a bit.
If there is absolutely no way this is going to work with him then nicely tell him that you are not attracted to him and/or that you want someone that has more in common with you.
2006-10-31 09:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as 'out of someones league', so the fact that he is categorized as a 'geek' should not be the basis of your decision to turn him down. because some of those gangly looking guys who get good grades and play chess turn out to be an extreamly great man, very caring and loving........ But if it is more of a matter of you just not interested in the same things, then let him down gently. The best thing to do is honestly sit him down and tell him that you arent interested. You could also tell him you are taken.
2006-10-31 09:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is a geek (as I am often considered), just say (in the nicest possible way) that you aren't ready for a fling.
Either that or wait. Being a "geek", he is probably bright and will get a good job later on.
2006-10-31 09:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bilko! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing short of telling him how you feel. Avoiding him will result in him figuring out what you already know. And there is no sense in him getting further taken in, or you having to stress over the situation longer. You have to be honest when telling him but compassionate. But, at the end of the conversation it should be clear to him it will never work. This will be a life lesson for him so it's OK if it stings a bit. But, life does that sometimes. If you never felt down you'd never know how good you felt at times and viseversa. Good Luck
2006-10-31 09:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by kidatwill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take it as a compliment when ANYBODY has
a crush on you........be it geek, nerd, jock, whatever.
That means that person thinks you are special. How lucky
are you.........someone thinks you are special. So why not act
special. Be kind to him. You dont have to like him back, but there is no reason NOT to be friendly. If he asks you out then
you can simply say "I dont think of you like that. I think of you as a friend."
Be the bigger person........make his day and be friendly.
What can it hurt????
2006-10-31 09:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all you should wear one of those "I {heart} geeks" T-shirts...hahaha.
And what's wrong with a guy having a crush on you? Is he actually doing something that is hurtful or bothersome to you? I can't give advice on what to do unless I know what he's doing first....
2006-10-31 09:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by jimjones3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reality of it is whatever you say will end up hurting his feelings, but that being said what will hurt his feelings the least in the end is the truth, maybe not brutal truth, but truth none th eless, you could use any of the classics "I just dont like you like that" or "you're not really my type" or the golden kiss off "lets just be friends". Good Luck to you.
2006-10-31 09:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by ntqnbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not enable him purchase you something else. you receives burnt contained in the best. He might want to damage you bodily. even although he's a geek to you he has emotions and those emotions might want to develop into rage once he feels he has been performed. imagine about it. would you want someone to attempt this to you. in basic terms most excellent you on in basic terms for use for what they want. that is referred to as Karma that is going to resurface. So decrease it off with the guy.
2016-12-05 10:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by aune 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not looking for a relationship inside school OR that you have a crush and it wouldn´t be fair with him OR that it's not on your beliefs to have something with a guy you don´t like or know that much. Good Luck!:D
2006-10-31 09:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie Beach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After two years of being bugged by a geeky nerd, I finally realized I'd fallen in love with him. We eloped, and have been happily married since November 1969!
Don't be so quick to count yours out!!
2006-10-31 09:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by baeb47 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋