ok. there's this girl i go to school with who evidently has an attraction for me. even though i've told her i'm not that way. what should i do to get her to leave me alone?
2006-10-31 09:16:58 · 16 answers · asked by Wild_Thing 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
bisexuality is a free way of thinking, over the limits, so she probably is expecting you to switch to bisexuality and become like her someday (which is quite possible) What u need to stress should possibly be; not that you are not interested in women but that you are not interested particularly in her..That is instead of your indifference for women in general, specify your apathy individually for her. That should help
2006-10-31 09:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by ddyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, 99% of the time, it's b/c of the challenge. they know they can't have you, so they want you even more.
Or, maybe someone has told them you like her, or maybe you have sent her some mixed messages somehow ?
Maybe you should confront her ask her why she is interested in you, when you are clearly not interested in her.
If that doesn't work, ignore her, or haveyour friends convince her to leave you alone.
2006-10-31 17:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why... same reason guys hit on girls they have no chance with, faint hope. (Or sometimes misinterpretation on someone's part, like maybe she's not actually hitting on you or she thinks you're just playing hard to get.)
What should you do... well, if you've already told her you're not interested, move up a step and straight out tell her to quit harassing you.
2006-10-31 17:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by angiekaos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bluntly tell her you're not interested in her and are not gay or bisexual. You know the same way you do to guys but you'll be talking to a girl.
2006-10-31 17:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone who bisexual does that.
Maybe Try talking to her again tell her I dont like girls not a bit and Im not going to ever. Then just walk off and try not going around her.
2006-10-31 17:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you actually SAY, "Hey, I'm not into girls" or did you just kind of mumble something and find somewhere else to be? Because you need to say it - no prettying it up or acting shy - and if she keeps up after that, then say that if she doesn't back off you're going to report her to the principal for harassment.
2006-10-31 17:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by triviatm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing that you do to all the stupid guys who hit on you. It's a no win situation, you will always have someone hitting on you, just be happy that you get hit on.
2006-10-31 17:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by loser 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You treat her the same way you would treat a guy who kept coming on to you.
Whatever you would do to make him stop that's what you do to her.
2006-10-31 17:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is not the normal behavior of decent Bi-sexual humans.
2006-10-31 17:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by tab2508 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels that if she's persistent enough, then you'll give in....The next time you tell her no, you must be sincere, and assertive. Don't smile, nor giggle. That way she'll know that you are serious....
2006-10-31 17:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋