okay so ive been on and off with this guy that im goin to call eric.
when me and eric first got together, my friends got really mad at me! they said that he is a "bad influence" to my life.
the reason they probably say this is because he drinks, he smokes, he used meth when he was 11 until 13 and he gets in a lot of trouble too.
i really like him
i know he likes me a lot too
but i just dont want my friends feeling that way about us. one of them refused to talk to me until me and eric break up :[
are my friends' feelings towards my boyfriend valid?
please answer me!
i dont want to talk to my parents about it because they dont know about my boyfriend's "bad behavior"
2006-10-31 09:11:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and btw.he has never, in any kind of way, tried to offer me any "bad" ****. and i KNOW for a fact that he has stopped using ice/meth because he is back to his normal weight, (meaning hes not super skinny anymore) and im with him most of the time. i dont think that he is a bad influence in my life at all because he was the one that told me not to smoke when there was a point in my life that i really wanted to.
2006-10-31 09:34:38 · update #1
your friends are right. Bad company corrupts good character. This does not sound like the kind of guy you want to be hanging around with!
their reasons for not wanting you to go out with him are very valid. 1st of all, it's against the law. 2nd all that stuff is really bad for your health, and can contribute to earlier death. 3rd you're only 13, are you going to give up on your friends for a guy that you almost definitly will not marry? your friends are there for you, but this guy is stupid to risk his life with drugs/alcohol/smoking, he's not even there for you, you said it's on off.
stay away from 'eric', and talk to your parents, they can help you.
2006-10-31 09:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by yuuki chan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a classic case of being attracted to a bad boy and it never ends well. What do you like about a guy who smokes, drinks, uses ILLEGAL drugs (and he hasn't given them up just because he told you he did), and gets into alot of trouble and he's only 15. These guys are never faithful to one girl. Why should he respect that rule of being true to you when he breaks all the other rules? You're losing friends who care about you over this guy and you know your parents won't approve. You know in your heart this is a lost cause.
2006-10-31 17:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Debra D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
trust me, you are too young to put any guy in front of your friends. they are right. and your parents will find out sooner or later about his behavior. id break up now before he tries to talk you end to something you will regret. you dont want to be a mom at 14, 15, 16, or any time in school. even if you dont do "that" he could try to talk you into doing other bad stuff and most of the time the blame falls on the girlfriend because she is willing to stick up for her immature boyfriend. i hope you dump his sorry butt and i hope he gets some help!! god bless!
2006-10-31 17:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by jody g 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If by age 11 he had already started doing drugs, and at 15 he is drinking and smoking, it sounds like he is on a bad, bad, BAD path. He is probably not the best person to be around.
2006-10-31 17:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by robbet03 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course their concerns are valid!! A 15 year old has no right to drink and smoke! Does e come from a stable home/family? And if hes so "cool", y is he goin out wth a 13 year old?? I suggest you stay away! You dont want your life to be ruined at this age!!!
2006-10-31 17:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by totalbabe ;-x 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
unless you want to end up being just like him you need to stay away from people like that. I dont know him but ive been through a few and i can tell you that this one is NOT the one. You are 13, dont do anything serious and mess up your life. You are too young!!!! Not trying to sound like your mom or anything but your friends are actually right on this one.
2006-10-31 17:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by lisamarie_625 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not to be offensive but Cut HIm Loose.
You are so young and there is so much more to life. I fell in love when I was 14, and now at 19 I am 8 months pregnant. Wait!!!!!! Be a kid because you only get a few years to do so, you can be grown forever..
2006-10-31 17:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by Chynadoll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man that sound kind scary..Using meth at 11 damn and you like this guy..If I was you I would listen to your friends and get out of that relationship..I know you really like him..But sooner or later your parents are going to find out and then you are going to have to break up with him.Damn I would be scared as hell to be going out with a little junkie..Girl listen to your frens and dump the little druggie...
2006-10-31 17:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by Stunna 25 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend is using meth at age 11 then yes..your friends are correct. at 13 and 15 you are both still too young to be engaging in any serious relationship.
break up w/this guy and find a nice guy that will resect his life and your own
2006-10-31 17:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by ARMYWIFE 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have no business seeing anyone. Your just a child. I know you probably think you know everything but if you don't start using your brain that God gave you your going to end up somewhere where you don't want to be. You need to respect yourself and love yourself more. You are a gift from God and you need to treat your self like that.
2006-10-31 18:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by treehouse1636 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋