Talks about gay stuff when he is drinking like getting called princess at the bar.and reading the stranger magazine.And no orgasm with me but has sex anyway.And if he is why marry a woman? Am I like really his true love? Is my thinking he is gay a probability he is?Like a woman just knows?Help !!!!!!!
2006-10-31 09:09:50 · 15 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ive asked and he says no!
2006-10-31 09:14:51 · update #1
All you have to do is listen to the hateful comments and questions on this site to see what it's like to be out and gay. A lot of people don't even acknowlege that they are gay to themselves. Society says: date the opposite sex, get married, have kids, have a white picket fence. That's what you've been told to do since the day you were born. Remember that sexuality is a spectrum with gay at one end and straight at the other and bisexuality in the middle, and everyone falls somewhere on that line. If you fall at one end or the other, life is easy, you know who you are. But if you fall somewhere closer to the middle, it can be very confusing. So you do what you've been told, like get married, and then realize after years, "I'm not happy, what's wrong? I can't figure it out." But then the right someone comes along that makes it crystal clear. The only person that knows for sure is him and he may not even know yet. So sit down and have an honest discussion. Tell him your fears, concerns, observations. Who knows what he'll say.
2006-10-31 09:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by momaab 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if you choose a quiet time that you both feel at ease and you sit down and have a chat about what is worrying you. Just ask him if there is anything you are doing wrong, do you turn him on, what does it take to turn him on dont just blurt out ARE YOU GAY??
Imagine how he would feel if he is not gay and just needs some more excitement in his life, and that excitement might be needed from you.
2006-10-31 17:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by ken t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be gay, bisexual or confused, and I feel really sorry for you, but there's no way we can tell without knowing him. If you really love him, accept him for what he is, let him know that you will, and wait for him to open up about the situation, if there is anything he hasn't told you. If you're going to be angry, judgmental or bitter about it, those are all good reasons for him not to tell you. I'm sure he married you because he loves you, but love and sex aren't the same thing.
2006-10-31 17:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna say he most likely is gay. He just hasn't admitted it to himself yet. Get away from him now, and always pratice safe sex in case he sleeping around on you.
2006-10-31 17:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by bratty brat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words.
If you're interested in him as a possible boyfriend I would really pay attention to the signals.
If he's just a friend....who cares.
2006-10-31 17:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's at least a fantasy for him.
2006-10-31 17:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by Zecharia Sitchen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
many homosexual's marry to the opposite sex to hide that they are what they are. he may be bi too. but most likely he's hiding it if he is gay.
2006-10-31 17:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Angelic Alice 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats terrible for you. if this is what you experience than my heart is out to you. ive got a big one so take some of it. best of luck.
2006-10-31 17:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by shyboy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-31 17:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by Joe D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah. Total gay
2006-10-31 20:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋