Do guys always cheat? Not really, I don't. I was interested in this guy. He said he wanted a relationship but he still wanted to see girls. Or actually, I asked is it cheating to see girls. He said no. I got involved because he seemed to say what I wanted to hear. He was supposed to be a top. I was just testing the waters. I topped him. He never tried, showed and interest, and was always trying to meet other guys surfin the Net. He really confused me. One guy actually suggested that the only way to keep him would be to sleep around with new people twice a week. That to me is sick and sexually immature, not to mention risky. As if its not bad enough the gay community gets bashed for aids, but this increrases one's chances of getting it. WHy do people lie about who they are? I really liked him but he had no control. He was confused and I couldn't help him. I don't get it. Who has so little control over there life that they act this way? Are gay guys really this sleezy, do girls do DL men
2006-10-31 09:08:21 · 7 answers · asked by Joe D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Your question sounds a little confusing to me, but this guy sounds like bad news, and I think you'd be better off without him altogether. Find someone who really likes and respects you, and wants the same things you do from a relationship - I know it's easier said than done (where ARE all the nice men? - oh, yeah, most of them have got happy settled relationships already), but it's worth looking, because it won't work out any other way, and staying with this guy will make you more unhappy.
2006-10-31 09:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will be men, whether straight or gay. If that is not what you want, look for someone else. Not all are sleezy. I'm by no means a whore or anything, I'd rather find that special someone who makes me happy and sleep with 3 different people in a week but that's just me.
2006-10-31 17:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by JR 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just learned a valuable lesson recently, I'm a Tomboi and i fell in love with a young woman who strung me along for over a year, she kept telling me that she was strongly attracted to me and that eventually we would have a relationship. Long story short, i founded out that she was only playing with my heart and emotions to get money {yeah i know} and whatever else she could get out of me. I had to walk away as painful as it was to do because she didn't have my best interest at heart, she was only thinking about herself and in the end i was the one who got hurt. Sometimes the right thing to do is the hardest, and i know it's hard for you, but the best thing you can do is walk away from this relationship and find someone who will love you for who you are.
2006-10-31 17:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by ~Twisted Sister~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya know most gay individuals don't need to lie about things in their life. But from time to time they like to keep secrets about them selves. It all really depends on how you truly feel about this person. People some times take things way out of context. so go with you gut instinct
2006-10-31 17:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Wild_Thing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know when to let someone go?
Well I would let anyone go who is like the guy you described above. Sounds like you've already done that. Good for you.
Some guys are sleazy. Read what heterosexual women have to say about the guys who only want one thing.
Women don't put up with it, though. We do.
2006-10-31 18:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Angry Gay Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just got a bad apple honey don't let him spoil the whole bushel for you move on and find mr right.
2006-10-31 22:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by jusme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gays are just about sleeping around, forget about a commitment....what is a "top"...on second thought, never mind
2006-10-31 17:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by The Grand Wizard 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋