how do you know when you can not get pregnant and what does it take to actually get pregnant?

Question

my question is mainly asking like how do you get pregnant. like i know how you get pregnant but i wanna know what are ways that you can really get pregnant like me i've tried and tried but it never seems to work and i want a baby but no matter how much times i try or pray it never seems to work. i just don't know why things are not working for me because i am someone who wants a child but it just seems to not cooperate with me. so i really would like to know is it me or is it just meant for me not to have a child?

Answer 1

Have sex three times a week.

Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.

2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.

Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and don’t require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.

3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).

Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.

4. Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.

A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.

5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.

Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.

6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.

7. Don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.

8. Have enjoyable sex.

Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.

9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.

The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.

10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.

Answer 2

There are several subtle internal factors that can cause you problems getting pregnant; such as irregular cycles, imbalanced hormones, shortened luteal phase, or increased prolactin levels.

Many couples opt for treatments at a fertility clinic that can be draining both financially and emotionally. Many others may try home remedies or follow the advice of old wives' tales.

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Answer 3

Given a regular 28 day cycle a woman is most fertile on days 8 to 16 after the start of her last period. Have sex every other day during that time. It might take a while. If you and your partner have been trying for more than a year with no luck, it's time to see a doctor and/or fertility specialist.

Answer 4

You need to undestand your cycle eg approx 28 days. You can get ovulation tests to predict when you are most likely to get pregnant (about 4 days every month). Give up alcohol and caffeine as these can affect your fertility. If you don't have regular periods, see your doctor to see if that is a problem. You may have polycystic ovaries which make it difficult to become pregnant. Other conditions can also make it difficult such as undiagnosed problems eg chlamydia, endometriosis.

Answer 5

You must be ovulating to conceive. You can go online and get your approximate ovulation time or get an over the counter ovulation kit. You don't necessary have to have sex the day you ovulate as sperm can live inside a woman's body for several days after intercourse. However, your best chance at conception is having sex during the time that you are ovulating. If you have sex, say, 12 days after you ovulate you are unlikely to get pregnant. So you need to time it.

Also, your age and physical condition can also have a say in how easily you conceive. Not to mention your husband... he could possibly have "slow swimmers" or a low sperm count that could make it difficult for you to conceive naturally.

Answer 6

To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Answer 7

you should see a gynecologist. It could be that you, or your partner, are not able to produce children. I hope that's not the case! Try a fertility monitor. I wish you the best, and if it doesn't work out there's always In-virto fertilization or adoption!

Answer 8

Hello I am Hanna and oh my u sound just like me I dont really have an answer because like I said we sound identical. Everyone tells me it is just mot my time and god will give you children u just have to wait. i am sure that isnt want u wanted to here cause i dont like to here it either but it might bring a smile to ur face good luck and keep in touch!