My friend is a girl, she is 19 and pregnant, and I am 21 and in a very perfect relationship with a wonderful man that is 35. My friend is just dating of and on w/ the guy that got her pregnant. When we hang out together she sometimes gets touchy with me and lingers on me 2 long when we hug. Could she be trying to tell me that she might be bi? How do I handle this? I am NOT interested, and I also don't want to hurt her feelings or ruin the friendship by blowing her off. Any suggestions on what to do?
2006-10-31 08:45:25 · 11 answers · asked by u_make_me_wanna_lala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
B/C she's pregnant she is very hormonal. It could be that she just needs some human companionship and touch. She probably feels vunerable b/c she's pregnant and this guy she's dating doesn't seem very interested in her or even loves her. You're her friend and she probably just needs a hug and feel loved...not like sexually but sisterly. You should try to talk to her and let her know you care about her and you are there for her.
2006-10-31 08:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sound's insecure. Like she needs interest from different adult men to experience sturdy approximately herself "perhaps communicate it over which incorporate your Fiance and permit him know what you think of is appropriate and makes you experience mushy needless to say no longer in a stressful way. possibly say has blah blah continuously been a comfortable feely female? And if that would not artwork take her interior the bathing room and circulate ninja on her (joke's)
2016-10-21 01:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by comesana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is emotionally needy because the relationship with the impregnating guy is not meeting her needs either and she feels an need to cling to you. Get her to talk to a pastor or counselor. The prolonged hugs may mean she has emotional needs.
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2006-10-31 08:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you thought that she might be grateful that you are such a good friend and that she asks mutely for help and understanding as an older friend? Maybe its not about your beauty, maybe is about your friendship and loyalty when is most important. Maybe she isn't bi, maybe she just needs you. Just be with her.
Or I might be wrong.
2006-10-31 08:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dijan4eto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh. now thats a hard one, but i think i can help, DUH shes pregnant right. with a guy right. well then shes not bi. matbe shes just one of those people who love emotion. some people cant stand it and that could be you. just try to deal now if she tells you something that might lead to her being bi and yuo absolutley have know doubts. email me. my email address is
blondeqt4ver8994@yahoo.com
good luck with your perfect boyfriend and your perfect relationship
2006-10-31 08:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try it you might like it... it could expand an already good relationship into something better that only you two can share...
2006-10-31 08:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by jeep_man129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is just wanting some attention since she is pregnant and she does not have anything stable
2006-10-31 08:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah send her my way lol um just tell her that you are happy with the person you have. tell her you need your space
2006-10-31 13:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by legion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop speculating.
2006-10-31 09:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by Blacknight_81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok.....
tell her dat u r not interested...sorry
2006-10-31 08:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by gangstayubi69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋