many studies have shown that as soon as men meet a woman they put her in two categories, someone just to have sex with or someone to date. are men really so jaded to judge women that quickly? some girls are highly capable of being sexual and intimate at the same time. is it possible for men to accept or look past that?
2006-10-31 08:32:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You can find some study to support virtually any view. While I don't doubt or dispute that some study came to the conclusion you document, I will say it is a generalization...at best.
Certainly you find people that will match up nicely with their conclusions, but you will also find people that are the total opposites.
Studies and statistics can be manipulated to prove anything, so take them a grain of salt. I don't recall who said it, but a wise man once said, "The average American has one breast and one testicle."
2006-10-31 08:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by crustysob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for men as a group, and neither can anyone else.
Some men may certainly put a woman in one of two catagories upon meeting her, but any studies that say that all (or even most) men engage in this practice are false.
Studies can be shown to prove anything. It all depends on the group you decide to study.
Men will react to a woman based on how the woman's features and personality jive with their own wants, likes and dislikes. Some men will view a woman as a potential partner. Others will not. When you change who you are to change your perception in the eyes of a man, you are only cheating yourself, because the man will not fall for you, but for a character that you are playing, forcing you to create an alternate persona that you have to act out for your entire relationship, in the fear that if they were to ever see the "real you", they would not like it. If a man does not want who you consider to be the "real you" (who you are around your family and closest friends), it is foolish to refuse to accept that fact.
2006-10-31 16:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what men look at every woman as a chance to have sex with basically the two types are just his guide to figure out how long it'll take for certain type of women or if he really have a chance at all but sexually desires are always in their mind with the opposite sex i know sick isn't it
2006-10-31 16:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women usually categorize men too.
Losers and Non-losers.
Non-losers don't just have sex with women to meet their own needs, and them toss them aside.
2006-10-31 16:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true at all.
The two categories are to have sex with and to have sex with after a 12 pack.
2006-10-31 16:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am positive that this is not a proper study. If it was there would definatley be more categories. Like fatties and uggos. I don't want to have sex with or date either of them.
2006-10-31 16:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
men judge and decide most due to material values..yeah and they belive in categories ..borders and cliches,,,not all of them though
2006-10-31 16:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Nova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow where did you get garbage information or are you being judgmental. I think your being a bigot.
2006-10-31 16:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would look past it.
2006-10-31 16:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sources . . .doesn't sound accurate . .
2006-10-31 16:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋