I feel the life i am living is not the life i want to live...that the person i seem to be is not completely the real me...
2006-10-31 08:30:28 · 6 answers · asked by just lQQkin 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Nope... You are not alone. Your desire for perfect life is what you are with. Don't even dare to call yourself alone. You have lots of thought in your mind. Keep a hope, desire and enthusiasm to achieve whatever you want.
Hope is the rope which swings you between success, failure, perfect , imperfect and so on...
2006-10-31 08:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the way you feel you shold do one of two thins. Seek a therapist, because it seems you have social issues along with a self concept problem. Or, take a Human Relations course. I am required to for my BA in psychology and, even though I considered myself to be relatively mentally healthy, gained a lot from it. Or, you could just by the text that I used for the class and go over it yourself and try and adapt some of the suggestions Ford makes. The book was Human Relations: A game plan for improving personal adjustment (3rd edition) by Loren Ford.
You should know that 1/3 of Americans will be inflicted with a mental disorder in their lifetime. You are most certainly not alone, and the issue you bring up are a lot more common than you might believe. Professional help is really the best choice, but if you can't afford it or are to shy you should atleast invest in some self help books. I hope you realize who you want to be and how to get there. That book I mentioned really focuses on living the life you want to live and the steps, methods and choices that must be made to do that. Good luck and God bless.
2006-10-31 16:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is a series of changes like the Panama Canal we are ever moving and waiting on the lanes to change to fit us like we would like if they never fit us like the people of panama we must dig a deep channel to accommodate our changing self's are make us better than we were before the last channel
2006-10-31 16:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry Berry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are constantly changing and evolving.....it's what life is all about.
It's your life you have a lot to do with the life you live and the person you are.
Start today to make some changes.
2006-10-31 16:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw ur not alone. i feel the same way. i feel some times like life is full of lies and like im the only one to see that. i feel like i dont wanna be this person i am but i have to in order for me to stay true to my self i should say
2006-10-31 16:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always felt this way and I've never figured out why or how to deal with it. I used to think I was born into the wrong century, wrong body, wrong family, wrong universe.
2006-10-31 16:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by eightieschic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋