My friends have been kind of excluding me a little bit. like for weeks ive been asking them if they want to get together and do something on halloween but they just kept telling me that they dont know what they're doing yet. And then the night before halloween i asked them if they wanted to hang out or something. And they said that they were going to a movie with their other friend. And they didn't even invite me! what should i do!!??
2006-10-31 08:01:28 · 6 answers · asked by :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you remember saying anything to them that would have made them upset? I would just come right out and ask them what is going on. Tell them to stop avoiding you. If they are friends they would be honest with you. Its not fair to you that you are being excluded and basically ignored without an explanation. Hope all goes well.
2006-10-31 08:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by BabyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you start thinking that they don't like you or things like that just try and think if you done or said something bad about them and maybe that is th reason that they don't want to hang around with you.. and even if they don't like you then there is no big deal i am sure you can make new friends and better friends.. not everyone can like us.. my friend had told me that she didn't want to hang out with me and after a while ones she saw that i had meet new people she came back
2006-10-31 16:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Retrace your steps,,,back up and think if you did or said something that would have caused them to treat you different than before? If not, maybe they all have PMS (kidding), seriously, don't let them ruin your self esteem...I had the same problem and once I started to find other friends, my old ones wanted to resume friendship...but too late,,,I had better friends.
2006-10-31 16:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen i had this problem when i moved to baton rouge and guys i worked with acted like friends and then didnt invite me out for a beer after work. i understand what you are going through so you need to come up with the plans and/or activities. that way you are making the invites to everybody.
2006-10-31 16:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by derekginnetti 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
recall what all happened b4...did u hurt their feelings?just ask them why they r behaving towards u like that.....if there is a wrong from ur side ask for pardon,explain everything...get explained.......but remember control ur temper.....dont argue....just listen to them and tell only a few words what u want to say them ..hope u become good frens again......good luck
2006-10-31 16:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by an 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop panicking about it.
2006-10-31 16:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋