I go to his home together after school because my parents aren't home and i'm locked out until they do get home. He lives across the street from me. On that day he patted me, at his house he talked me into taking a shower with him. I didn't see anything wrong with that because his dad has a big shower thing in the celler and its like a school shower with 4 shower heads. We were showering and he kept talking about oral sex and asking me if I ever had it done or did it and I said no then he said he wanted to see what it was like to give sombody oral sex so I joking said ok. He got in front of me and he did it to me. Now I am afraid he will get me to do it to him. He is always trying to talk me into doing it. I keep saying no and I am afraid he won't let me stay in his house if I don't soon do it. I don't have anyplace else to go and it's getting too cold outside to wait for my parents to get home. If I just do it and get it over with, will he leave me alone? what if i like it?
2006-10-31 07:56:28 · 7 answers · asked by Adam B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your friend would kick you out of his house for not giving him oral sex than he is not a real friend, and he is just using you.
It's better to be locked out in the cold than have a "friend" take advange of you.
2006-10-31 08:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make up an excuse as to why you need your own key. You could tell the friend that you aren't comfortable with all that and you are uncomfortable around him. Be honest if you want to keep the friendship. Don't do anything you don't want to. And if he continues to harass you, then that's sexual harassment. Tell him you'll tell someone if he doesn't back off.
2006-10-31 08:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sexual harrassment (if u r uncomfortable) and u need to tell somebody. tell ur parents the truth if u trust them or give them some other reason why u can't go to his house anymore like u aren't friends anymore or something and either get ur parents to give u a key or get them to let u go somewhere else. that way if he won't stop pressureing you, u can stop going there.
2006-10-31 08:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by i.WoNt.SaY.iT. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
r u serious?! hes gay, u prob already no that, but the question is do u want to do it to him? i mean u prob liked it when he did it 2 u, so do u want 2 do the same 2 him? if u dont then dont do it, if u do then im guessin ur testosterone levels r 2 high nd u should calm urself somehow, cuz thats wat usually turns people gay
2006-10-31 08:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you like it already or you would have your dad hide a key somewhere..sooner or later all your friends in school will figure it out then what..watch how they look at you they probably already know..watch their faces..ill bet even the teacher has figured it out..boy did you mess up
2006-10-31 08:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
This person is not your friend. He's using you. Stay away from him.
2006-10-31 08:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u 4 real??? lol
2006-10-31 08:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋