2006-10-31 07:53:08 · 25 answers · asked by ROCKSATR 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sure, but it doesn't mean that you won't choose to be in a lifelong commitment with one person. Even if you're straight, choosing to be with one person means foregoing relationships with all others of the opposite gender. When you're bi and you commit, you just say yes to one person and no to a whole lot more.
Of course, not all people choose to have a lifelong partner, and that's fine, too.
2006-10-31 07:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
cortni,
Yes. I think so. But just because you ae Bi, doesn't mean that you have to act out on it. If you are feeling regret about it, you will still feel the bi-ness of yourself, but you don't have to do it.
I have pulled myself off the shelf until I find the right woman. So I am still bi, having been pulled that way for too long, but as time goes, it becomes less important to me.
What I had to do is make a choice, and then understand it. It takes time, and a lot of self disicipline (like saying 'no' to myself), but I live through it. I know that I am feeding a monster as soon as I give into the temptation. So, for a few years, the monster has been hungry. Yet, I think that his stomach is shrinking! lol
"You have already made the choice, you just have to understand it." -- The Oracle, The Matrix Reloaded
2006-10-31 08:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah if your Bi now most likely you are going to stay that way but there are always these exceptions. I think this sexuality is like a disease it stays with you for life but it could also just be an experimentation you are having maybe you are just experimenting. Maybe you are trying new things.
2006-10-31 07:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im Bi for life and married to a wonderful man and have a lovely girlfriend on the side!!
2006-10-31 07:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Shortcake r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you asking other people about your own sexuality? You know more about it than anybody on Yahoo Answers, I'll guarantee you that much.
Sometimes people do go through sexual "phases." I think most people tend to react against this idea - especially gay people, because we've worked to establish that being gay isn't a "choice" - but that's not to say that maybe some people are more in touch with one aspect of their sexuality or another in the course of their lives.
I think everybody is "bisexual" to some degree - most research bears this out - but most lean one way or the other, and culture tends to pigeonhole them into "gay" or "straight." But for people who really are conscious of an attraction to both sexes, sure, you might go back and forth throughout your life, depending on a lot of factors. Just go with whatever works!
2006-10-31 08:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bi is just a label and your feelings and who you decide to spend your life with is up to you. I think a lot of times people use the term bi to keep from committing to any one person. If you have chosen to spend your life with someone of the opposite sex you are hetero, if you have chosed to spend your life with someone of the same sex you are homosexual. It is hard to justify Bi in a committed relationship, you can be bi in dating but if you are in a monogamous relationship it would be tough to have both sexes in that one person!
2006-10-31 08:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by jobseeker_3212005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not always. Yes, you are bi now, but a year from now you may decide to go full fledge who knows! Only you will be the judge of what you decide to do later with your life. Good Luck.
2006-10-31 07:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Let's keep it real. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you still feel that way cuz at some point you were straight and became bi so know you are bi and maybe some time you will become straight...it is just how you feel...
2006-10-31 07:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you Bi male or bi female
2006-10-31 07:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by wghany2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. You could change, through normal life growth. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. As you get to know yourself better, through life experience, then you'll know (probably!) if you'll always be bi.
2006-10-31 07:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋