my so called bestfriend slept with my now called ex-boyfriend i had to hear it from other people. I thought this guy will never cheat on me and i also thought she was my friend. Oh and now she says she's pregnant and my ex doesent want the baby or her she has no one but me. But I dont know what to do, my ex also wants me back he wants to leave with me far away but I dont know what to say or do. What should I do?
2006-10-31 07:44:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Only you can determine what it is you should do. What decision do YOU feel at peace with? Of course, the typical answer to your question would be common sense related, such as leave him and never look back. Although that may be what people say you should do, you still have to do what's best for you. If you feel as though he made a mistake and you still love him, then listen to your heart and go from there. However you have to also remember to use your brain because if his beahavior becomes a pattern and he begins to cheat again then obviously you have to listen to your mind. Always remember not to be the foolish woman in love, a woman should only love a man with three quaters and keep the rest for her self. If all your love is inveted in him then what do you have to give your self? And if you don't have it to give to yourself then how are you gonna give it to him.
Be smart, follow your heart, and make the decision that comforts you. I hope this has helped.
Love, live life
Candy
2006-10-31 07:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU REALLY ASKING THIS QUESTION? OR IS THIS A JOKE. I HOPE IT IS FOR YOUR AMUSEMENT . IF NOT YOU HAVE SOME VERY VERY SERIOUS SELF WORTH ISSUES. YOU SHOULD TELL THIS EX-BOYFRIEND TO HIT THE ROAD , GROW UP, AND NEVER CALL U AGAIN B/C YOU ARE A LADY..AND YOU WONT SETTLE FOR BEING LAST PLACE AND TELL HIM YOU DONT WANT YOUR EX-BEST FRIENDS SLOPPY THIRDS..THEN TELL THIS EX BEST.. THAT SHE CAN DEAL WITH THIS PROBLEM ON HER OWN, THE REASON SHE DONT HAVE A LOT OF TRUE FRIENDS IS PROBABLY BC SHE SCREWED ALL THEIR MEN AND TELL HER YOU HAVE TO SORT OUT YOUR LIFE BEFORE YOU HAVE ANY COMMUNICATION WITH HER.. AND THEN TELL HER YOU WILL CALL HER WHEN YOU HAVE HAD AMPLE TIME TO SEE IF YOU CAN TRUST HER AGAIN OR IF IT WONT BE IN YOUR BEST INTEREST. THEN FORGIVE THEM BOTH IN YOUR HEART BC THE BIBLE SAYS TO FORGIVE...BUT IT DONT SAY TO BE THEIR DOOR MAT..BEST PALS ETC. RESPECT YOUR SELF THEY BETRAYED YOU AND YOUR TRUST AND THEY GOT THEM SELF INTO THIS...U KNOW WHAT THEY SAY KARMA'S A ........WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.AND FURTHERMORE WHAT KIND OF MAN WOULD RUN WHEN IHE KNOWS A CHILD IS ON THE WAY? NOT A REAL ONE THATS FOR SURE...DO YOU WANT THE SAME TO HAPPEN TO YOU? IT COULD .
2006-10-31 15:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry for all of that, but you cant go with him cause if he did that with your so called best friend and then didnt even have the balls to tell you, then there is no reason why he wont do it again. and if he doesnt want the baby, than that makes him a coward. I think you should breakaway from him and your so called best friend cause friends dont do those things. The only types of people that do those things are sluts and cowards. Im sorry but you dont deserve that i think you should not talk to any of them. I hope i helped you. Good Luck
2006-10-31 15:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one, forget the ex. He done F'ed up. if he really did love u, then he wouldnt have cheated. what kinda of guy hits it and runs away when he finds out he has a child on the way? do u really want to be with a guy like that. F##k that. 2, the right thing to do would be there for ur so called best friend. she has no one else. but, she was suppose to be ur best friend, so its really up to u.
2006-10-31 15:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by SamE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get as far away as you can from both of them! This guys character (or lack of) is astonishing!!!First he sleeps with your best friend, gets her pregnant, and now wants to run away from his obligations into the sunset with you...She on the other hand, crossed the line when she slept with your boyfriend...acting no different than a dog in heat...now they expect you to let it all go and act like nothing happened? Everytime you see that baby, you will have a reminder of the betrayal, I'd be glad to have both of them out of my life...
2006-10-31 16:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your Friend and ex can do this to you then they are just not worth it really i no u think well that's easy for u to say but u do not need this crap its one thing to sleep with her but to not use protection and get her pregnant is foolish if i were u id cut them both out off my life this must be awful for u take care off your self
2006-10-31 15:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should forget about your x if he had to go behind your back to find out if he really wants you back then hes a jackass and your girl i know she your girl in all but if she slep with you x then she aint your friend!!
2006-10-31 16:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by HOT BITCH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends foreva
boys whateva
follow da saying
2006-10-31 15:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by gangstayubi69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a mess!hey follow your heart,trust your instinct!let your heart lead the way!i promise it will work!it always does!
2006-10-31 15:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by chatax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump them both, if either really cared about you then they would have never slept with each other.
2006-10-31 15:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by Arual 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋