what do i do i can't tell the father he'll gocrazy is not like i can go to my parents' im totally doomed. i don't have money to take care of it by myself. Should i get an abortion?
2006-10-31 07:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by Lavender da Great!!! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Go to your nearest Planned Parenthood office. They will have someone who can sit down and talk about your options. You don't say how old you are. Having an unwanted baby will forever change your life.
2006-10-31 07:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kaori 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, find out whether or not you're pregnant. Then, go ahead and tell your parents because it's not like they won't find out since you don't have the funds to take care of it or get an abortion. Third, tell the father because he deserves to know and before you think about getting rid of it, think about adoption! It's time to grow up because you should have been taking precaution while you were having sex and if the dad gets mad, he's just as guilty as you are because he could've used a condom!! It takes 2 to tango and he needs to be a MAN about the situation!!
2006-10-31 08:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by angellove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The decision should be made after you take a test. If you are pregagant you should tell the father, because he has the right to know and it is his responsiblity also, NEVER DO ANYTHING ALONE, not even make A decision regarding a life. Your parents will be angry, but will be happy you came to them. If you have a abortion, make sure you do it early, so it won't effect you as much emotionally. JUST MY OPINION!!!!!!!
2006-10-31 07:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by tanyachill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't advise you. I am against abortion, but who am I to tell you what to do? I wish you would consider carrying the child and giving it up for adoption, though. There are so many people out there who are aching to adopt a child, and there are lots of private adoption agencies who will allow you to choose the parents you want for your child. They will often help you out financially as well.
It would be the bravest, most selfless thing you could ever do, and I, for one, would admire you for life.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-31 07:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by tianjingabi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? talk to your parents and i'm sure after the initial shock wears off they will be supportive of you. definitely no abortion, unless conception was through rape or incest. you can always talk to a child services about putting your baby up for adoption, cuz theres always couples out there who cant have one of their own. oh, and make sure you do talk to the father. again after the initial shock wears off he might be willing to help. i know i was shocked when my g/f got pregnant and we thought for sure we were sunk as we could barely manage to keep ourselves clothed and fed, but our daughter eliza is the best thing to ever happen to us, even if she and i are ready to go our separate ways. neither of us would ever consider changing the past as far as shes concerned.
2006-10-31 07:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by paladin69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know your family life,,,or age...tell your parents if your underage..they wont like it at first but they need to know .If you arnt preg,,please make sure you dont get that way in the future. I have a daughter who was 15 when she told me....please tell your family,,but try to get a preg test first,,,,just becareful what ever you choose.
2006-10-31 07:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by heartzz_ablaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off an abortion cost well over 500 hundred dollars and second of why dont you get a pregnancy test before you go making any decisions
2006-10-31 07:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by jennifertrinitysky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are pregnant and wont be able to handle the baby just get an abortion.
2006-10-31 07:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
JUst find out for sure and if you are your parnents will be mad for awhile but everything will be okay
2006-10-31 07:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Desi & Dani's Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋