Had my op a lot of years ago and thought things would be different, naw they weren't. I turned out to be a les. Am I worried ? no. so why do all these people ask about being gay or les. I notice there are none from men. Is it just that women are such more loving and open about their feelings.
2006-10-31 07:31:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
always be true to your self
you have done this
in the past to get to where you are now
being a trans-lesbian is something a lot of us are / want
so if you are regerting what you have become
then rethink it what you are and become the better you
all ways move forard never back ward
2006-10-31 13:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people struggle with their sexuality because they were raised in areas that are not GLBT-friendly or not very sex-positive where they could explore their sexuality and figure out who they are sexually. Don't even get me started on the trans part! *We're* so far behind in acceptance it'll probably be a long time before those questions go away.
2006-11-01 04:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that you have yourself sorted but many people spend their whole lives trying to figure out their sexuality or trans gender issues and here is a starting point for people to get some input. Go easy, what has seemed a clear path for you isn't for everyone.
2006-10-31 15:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by fuzzierfelt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are not the silly questions. This is how the knowledge is built up. Imagination is the trigger for the development of human civilization.
2006-11-01 03:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by digendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only think it is silly when they only ask the question...no details, sometimes not even what gender they are...
i hear peoples' cries for help and i respond the best that i can...i grew up in a very small town and really wish i had access to something like Yahoo! Answers.
2006-10-31 16:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a pre op MTF. (my surgery will be done by dr reed in miami next august). i cant wait. i KNOW in my heart of hearts that things will finally be different (?). i will finally be able to express my self in a manner that is totally befitting of what and who i am. am i afraid of my post op sexuality??? nope. i make no bones about the fact that i will be lesbian. i have no desire to be with a man no or after the fact.
2006-10-31 17:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by newmichelle1959 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm still waiting for someone to ask if they're a post op trans....that could be amusing.
2006-10-31 16:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im happy you have your life sorted, but to the people who have these worries its not silly, its difficult, and they are quite brave publicly putting there fears down on here, please dont be so judgemental, there are a lot of youngsters on here who are not so sure of themselves.
2006-11-01 07:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by Croeso 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most of them are just curious, like they don't really understand where you're coming from but they're trying.
And yeah, it can get annoying... I try to be patient if they're not blatantly trying to be offensive, but still...
2006-10-31 17:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by angiekaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them be. Do you want to tell me you never wondered before about yourself? There are other things to concern yourself with.
2006-11-01 05:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by PROPHET 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋