When i have sex...I'm not sure if its because im nervous or if i'm just worried about it not working..but my penis doesnt get hard and sometimes makes my partner feel not wanted...I can get it hard myself if i masturbate(i usually have to do this while we are getting intimate so it will be hard for intercourse) but why doesnt it just get hard by itself because i am horney.Does this mean im getting impatent or im just nervous?? I'm a 28 year old guy in decent shape. I know this probably isnt enough information but i hope someone can help anyway.
2006-10-31 06:44:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
You're just nervous. Do you get an erection from the nurse at the doctor's office? No. It's a defense mechanism. You need to relax. Have a few drinks beforehand. And masturbate if you need to. Nothing wrong with that.
2006-10-31 06:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are foreskin stretching exercises you can do that will loosen things up quite a bit down there. This is a much better option than circumcision. I recommend that you use a penis skin moisturizer called Man1 Man Oil while doing the stretching though because your penis skin needs to be protected from soreness, dryness and chafing. It is a very helpful product that will save you from a lot of discomfort. Hope this helps.
2016-03-19 02:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be many causes for soft or weak erections, or problems maintaining an erection. These causes include age (usually after 30), vascular problems, penis injury, such as damage to veins and arteries inside the penis, a hormonal imbalance, excessive stress and anxiety, diabetes, chronic smoking/drinking, drugs, over-masturbation and sexual exhaustion, or surgery. If left untreated, weak erections can lead to permanent sexual dysfunction! If you need any additional information or a solution, you can contact me on the site below.
2006-10-31 09:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by lignebur72 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Insulin Resistance. See your doctor.
This stressful disorder is often linked to Insulin Resistance, an imbalance in blood glucose and insulin levels associated with Metabolic Syndrome (Syndrome X).
http://www.metabolic-syndrome.insulitelabs.com/Metabolic-Syndrome-and-ED.php
2006-10-31 06:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you just need a little more foreplay. Stop worrying about it just enjoy.
2006-10-31 06:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by elainecynthia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try an over the counter herbal remedy (ginseng)...
2006-10-31 06:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by GratefulDad 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋