help me pleae. i not got a clue what to get my wife this year, it needs to be sweet ans sexy . lol i got most of the usual thing so looking for a awsome gift.
2006-10-31 06:31:15 · 24 answers · asked by davies66108 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1) Make her, or buy her a very romantic Christmas card.
2) Write her a love letter and stuff it inside with the card.
3) Buy her a very pretty necklace (ask the salesperson for some advice.) Don't get one with mixed or fancy colors. Stick with gold or silver (whichever she wears most) and make sure it has something heartfelt. In my case I once bought a small locket in the shape of a Bible. It was not expensive, not flashy and it fit her taste well.
4) Avoid clothing since 99% of most women shop like this: They go into a store wanting a dress and come out with two skirts, a pair of shoes and a blouse. (Because they can't decide what dress they wanted.) If they can't decide, I'm quite sure you can't decide on one for her either.
5) Also avoid kitchen utensils, ironing boards, household appliances, etc.
6) Then give her a hand-written note explaining that she can turn it in for a one hour massage, given to her by you, and a bottle of carefully selected oil for the massage... She can turn it in to you for her to receive the massage, but she has to turn it in before Valentines Day.
2006-10-31 06:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally love getting Mall Gift Certificates that I can use on my own, at any store of my choosing. That way I get what I want.
Since you are trying to figure out what NOT to get her, stay away from anything that you may want such as power tools, football tickets, or stuff like that. High Buck items are usually a nice idea if you have a bit of spending money, but the things that mean the most from women are things that you pick out yourself.
A pair of pajamas for your enjoyment and viewing pleasure might seem like a nice idea, but she cant really show that off. You should get her something like ring or necklace.
Good Luck!
2006-10-31 06:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ... I just thought of this idea ... it might not work for Christmas ... but it sounds good to me ... !
Name a star after her ( just wait ) pick a day that you can show her the star - buy her a ton of camping stuff as little gifts - get a telescope ( doesn't have to be fancy ) set up your back yard with camping stuff ... but do it in a intimate way, with tiki torches or candles, set up a little dinner table, sleeping bags, and go camping for the night ... you can BBQ or make something yourself, have the table all made up nicely decorated, make smores & look at the stars all night - have a few glasses of wine - and head to the air-matress .. lol .. act crazy, be happy & cheerful ... like a sweet little boyscout ... !
Or come up with your own theme - like a shopping day, beach day, take her wine tasting, buy her a day at the spa, whatever you decide take that theme and go from there ... I think it's cute and she'll never forget it ... !
2006-10-31 06:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you may think it needs to be sweet and sexy..lol
but does she?
Often if you get that kind of thing...it means you want her to deliver-the-goods? and a lot of women hate that...
Soooo how about a gift-certificate, for a day at a beauty spa.
Or buy her some very very expensive perfume(something she may not be able to buy for herself).
or a stunning new handbag!(but make sure its like some thing that is a designer one)...These gifts will show not only you picked it! but that you love and honour your wife, and she is in no way a sex object!..
But...ask the girls at the counter what they would feel is the best choice(pic a mature kind of person)...not a
young girl.To wait on you..o.k.
Women love the thought that their husbands took the time, and effort to choose also...a good gift.
After all you want this gift to reflect 'how you love your wife'..
p.s. make sure you get whatever you do get gift wrapped..even a gift certificate..o.k.
2006-10-31 06:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For gods sake don't get her anything like kitchenware, tickets for a beauty salon, sexy underwear (unless she likes that sort of thing)! We dont like practical presents!!
Do you know what would be REALLY nice actually? (just thought of it). How about you re-new your wedding vows?!! Romantic or what!! Obviously you'll have to do it in the new year but i think she would really like that!!
Other presents she might like could be something like: Jewellery, (have you got any kids?) how about a nice framed photos of you and the kids? Or, you could just give her a wod of money so she can go out and blow it on whatever she wants!!
2006-10-31 06:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not buy her nothing to use in the Kitchen, buy her a day at the spa, or go to the spa with her and have a sexy spa day together, buy her some nice perfume, jewelry, something that's going to make her feel sexy,, good luck to you, remember to make her feel as special as she is to you,
2006-10-31 06:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't get anything related to household chores! Be it cooking utensils or laundry items, stay away!
It may sound cliche, but diamonds are awfully sexy AND sweet! (though any precious stone in the right setting will do!)
2006-10-31 06:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by sjrae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARGOS are doing a good range of non stick pans. these can serve two purposes after she has made your dinner she can hit over the head with them. but the chances are it would be the other way round
2006-10-31 06:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by species8472 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford it, how about a session at a spa? Possibly massage, or a facial? I'd love to receive any of those.
2006-10-31 06:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A chain saw bad
2006-10-31 06:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋