Sex for the first time for women is usually not pleasant. The bleeding is from breaking the hymen. Yours will probably go away soon. Don't use doche, just normal washing and wiping.
My first time was on my honeymoon with my husband. I bled all down my leg and on him, and it was very yucky. I don't remember it feeling good, just a new experience. Sometimes now (even years later) sex hurts. It just depends on how warmed up you are and how big he is. Bigger is not necessarily better if it is jammed in you.
So I would recommend that you only have sex with people you trust and that will listen to you and your needs.
2006-10-31 06:42:53
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answered by ht_butterfly27 4
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I don't know. I didn't bleed at all when I had sex for the first time ever. It was kind of akward for me. It was with my boyfriend after I graduated high school. It lasted maybe 10 minutes and I didn't even come... he did though, in like 5 seconds... lol.
I probably didn't bleed because I had masturbated before, with toys. Everyone's different. Maybe you should ask your mom...
2006-10-31 14:34:25
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answered by kisme86 3
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It was painful, but I did not bleed.
If you keep on see the traces of blood, after a while,then go see your gynecologist.
Good luck.
2006-11-01 09:45:34
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answered by Taz 4
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i bled too, not much though, but it did last for a few days afterwards. so your bleeding is perfectly normal. and the pain for me wasnt extreme, but rather was uncomfortable.
2006-10-31 21:49:01
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answered by Anonymous
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very weird and painful. Some people bleed and some don't.
2006-10-31 14:51:45
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answered by Anonymous
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YOU MUST HAVE BEEN WITH JAMES -- MY FIRST!!! IT FELT LIKE SOMEONE WAS DRIVING A MOTOR-HOME UP MY A**!!! WHEW. ANYWAY, I'D GIVE IT A FEW DAYS. IT SHOULD CLEAR UP ON ITS OWN. CONGRATULATIONS.
2006-10-31 14:37:12
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answered by LIPPS 3
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no its not normal, he must have been pretty rough....or it's just taking longer than normal for your hymen to break. my first time was special.
2006-10-31 15:03:27
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answered by ruxyinda818 2
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he must have been huge
2006-10-31 14:40:20
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answered by trey p 1
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