If the love is so strong can you just act like it doesnt exist and not act on it. And pretend like its not there. Or just ignore the person.
2006-10-31 06:28:54 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have always lived by the theory that I do not fall in love just because of gender or because I am "supposed" to. I fall in love with a person and everything that person is so no matter what the persons gender, physical appearance, etc if I made that strong a connection with the person than that supercedes all else. I can not control that nor do I want to.
2006-10-31 08:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by jobseeker_3212005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because "you" are doing it. There might be people you are attracted to, but to love someone deeply is a definite choice. Some people choose to love people who hurt them. Love starts with an attraction and things in common. You can decide if you want to spend more time with that person or not. Love is not easy and is giving/taking. It is a sacrifice which goes to say that it is a choice. You don't fall in or out of love, but you choose to love.
2006-10-31 15:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon Boy Toy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same situation. Everything you just said is the same thing happen to me. I did everything and was controlling towards my emotions, and unfortunately I pushed him away and never saw him again. I learned that love should not be controlled and should be expressed towards the one you wanna give your heart to.
2006-10-31 14:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by dark&pure? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you fall in love with a soul, with a smile, with a kiss... not with anyone that you'd expect to... and no you can't just ignore it... you can pretend to, but that's like asking someone not to breathe, or not to eat... it kills.
2006-10-31 14:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Phedre D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you try to control it or try to ignore it you will be miserable. You can choose not to act on it but the results will still be unhappiness.
2006-10-31 16:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a feeling that happens between 2 people, so you can not control it, because It needs two people.
When there is only one person, that is called obsession and that is a sickness.... good luck...
2006-10-31 14:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by El Recio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not who i fall for, however i can decide what i want to do about it. i have been given the power of discernment and if i have learnt anything it is that THE HEART LIES
2006-10-31 15:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by st.uncumber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ABSOLUTELY NOT ! ! ! I am not saying love at first sight - I am talking about a long relationship and somehow you realize that you love her.
2006-10-31 14:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by craig t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you cannot choose it, control it or ignore it.
2006-10-31 14:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart has its reasons...of which reason knows nothing.
2006-10-31 14:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by dragonrider707 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋