i have tried talking in mirrors and i have tried talking to ppl but they just stop talking nd walk away
2006-10-31 06:12:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
These are three different things.
Making friends: Making friends should be natural and spontaneous, like falling in love. It involves eye contact, body language and conversation. Relax. Find common ground with people. Ask questions. I.E. thats a cool pen where did you get it? or what did he just say? what was that all about? Smile, be calm, be yourself. Join groups at school, join groups at church, join, join, join. Be a good listener. You will make friends.
Being popular: Very few people are truly polular. Think that you are and you will be popular within your own group of friends. don't worry about always being everyone's favorite person. Popular people struggle too. They have to deal with people being angry with them for not walking with them or going with them or whatever. It's not easy for anyone.
Having confidence: This is really liking yourself and knowing yourself well. This takes time and you will never be confident in all areas and in all situations. Just do the best you can with the gifts you have and be proud of who you are and what you do. Know that you are doing your best and congratulate yourself yourself for that.
2006-10-31 06:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by BParker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound precisely like me, all of the approach. One factor, you can't false trust. People can inform whether or not you're faking or now not, additionally it isn't well to behave false considering individuals will nonetheless now not find it irresistible. Yes you will have to continually make eye touch with individuals, this permits them to realize you're optimistic, while you speak to individuals do not appear away or down, preserve watching them within the eye. When I get residence I am loud and cracking jokes and if I was once like this at college individuals might quite like me alot considering I was once like this within the seventh grade and tons of individuals favored me however then I have tons of enemies as good. I have made a brand new vowel now not to try this anymore due to the fact that now I am commencing school in 2 weeks and I am going to be myself considering I was once so worn out of being categorised because the quiet lady.
2016-09-01 05:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force it. Just be yourself. Who cares what other people think.. Most of the "popular" people are losers anyway, so no big deal. Be yourself and you'll find people and new friends with common interests. In my experience, the so called "popular" people were always the ones with personal issues.
2006-10-31 06:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bestie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to let people laugh at you, start with simply saying hello and go from there. Just keep trying. Look at people in the eyes when you talk, walk with your head high...
2006-10-31 06:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Arual 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-31 06:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in time the confidence will be there, time has this way of changing us, when we lose hope it is the end
2006-10-31 06:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make yogasanas,
2006-10-31 06:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by maha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow... see a shrink!!
2006-10-31 06:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋