I work at taco bell with alot of people and some people said that i'm too young to be married and have two kids and that it is bad. It kind of makes me mad cuz I don't regreat it I love being married and have kids.So is it wrong.
2006-10-31 05:53:37 · 20 answers · asked by BabyMamma19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well its what ever makes u happy people judge about what u do but if ur happy hows everything going who gives a damn. at end people persuit happiness so if ur happy who cares what people think jus try to better ur self and that it
2006-10-31 05:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly some of those people may be jealous. However I can say that having 2 kids at 19 is quite young and that means that you had to have at least one of them while you should have still been in highschool and that isn't wise because as your not a child you are not quite an adult either... a young adult whom still has alot of life experiences to go through and challenges.. As for the marriage hun, I believe that you are a little to young for it.. but if you are happy and he treats you right and supports anything you want to do that is good for your life then okay.. However his age is a big determining factor in wether it was a good call or not to get married.. cause if he is more than 3 yrs older than you, he has already experienced alot more than you.. remember that, when your wanting to go to the bars when you hit 21 he will probably have already been there and done that, and won't want you to go without him.. and then that could cause hardship in your relationship.
2006-10-31 06:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by cheryl m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't necessarily think it is bad as your given the opportunity to be young and act young with your children as they are growing up. You can be goofy and active in their lives cause you still feel like doing so cause your young. A lot of older parents aren't as active in their children's lives because they work all the time and come home tired and that is sad.
Some of the disadvantages though is you are forced to grow up fast. Starting out so young gives you no choice but to potentially struggle financially because of it being so costly to have children. You aren't given the chance to get established before kids come. Also, you and your husband will not be given the chance to enjoy each other and life being married because kids are thrown into the picture so fast. Unfortunately most of the attention goes on the kids.
2006-10-31 06:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by lala1229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his own. This was your choice and no one elses. If your happy then it is defiantly not a bad thing. I am 36 and had my first child at 17. Now my daughter is 19 and we are so from the same planet. I am not old and grumpy. Of course I did wait 10 years before having 3 more children. But I felt that I was to immature to have more children at such a young age. But I think that it is great that you can start a family at such a young age.
2006-10-31 06:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ... if you're happy and your family is taken care of - don't worry what others say. My mom was married with 3 kids by the time she was 21 ... they might just see it as if you missed out and grew up too fast ... but if that is what you were looking for then who are they to say what's right and what's wrong for you ... rock on girl - keep making yourself, kids, and husband happy ... !
2006-10-31 06:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's no person's place to choose no remember if that's "stable" or "undesirable"-- that's neither one. It in basic terms "is" i understand a woman who has 3 distinctive infants from 3 distinctive fathers. First new child whilst she became sixteen. 2d whilst she became in her early 20s. And 0.33 whilst she became in her late 20s. She and the daddy of her 0.33 toddler have been married for 5 or 6 years i've got self belief. does not make her a "undesirable" individual. it may mean that she's made selections that she did no longer think of by using thoroughly, in spite of the incontrovertible fact that that's all worked out for the greater desirable.
2016-10-03 03:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't say that is wrong. Most poeple out there have kids by that age and arn't married. I guess it kinda depends on what age you got married at, or had the kids at (wichever came first). Hopefully it was marriage. Anyway if ou are in love then thats what matters.
God bless
2006-10-31 05:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask that person what the hell are they doing with there life?
As long as you and your family is happy f*** anyone else. It is only wrong if you think so...It could be worse 19 with 4 children or 2 kids and unmarried.
2006-10-31 05:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it other than it being a considerable challenge. As long as the kids have food on the table and a roof over their heads, no one should have grounds for complaint.
2006-10-31 06:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about what other people think. The decision to be married and have kids lies in you. As long as you are in love and your children are taken care of.... I don't see a problem.
2006-10-31 05:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by ShaRay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong - it's unfortunate! You have a very limited future until the children are grown up. - that's what's unfortunate...Hopefully you married someone older who has an education.
I was married young and had 3 kids.....It wasn't wrong - it was unfortunate.
2006-10-31 10:10:54 · answer #11 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋