Well as my family goes they all say that it is very bad and that im going 2 hell. And that really gotton me scared and also i like this 1 person that use 2 be bi but i dont konw how 2 tell her.
2006-10-31 05:52:54 · 8 answers · asked by Amber B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First, if you ever were gay or bisexual and try to be straight you are fooling yourself, in my opinion, you will always be bi or gay. Second, I don't think you will go to hell anymore than anyone else. yes, the bible does say same sexes shouldn't lay together,but, if people want to be specific, it says a man shouldn;t lay with another man. Third, I think why it would be hard for a teenager if they were bisexual is because teenage years is a difficult years and teenagers are trying to find themselves and their own identity and independence. Teenagers have a hard time fitting in with their peers and they have a hard time accepting people the way they are or different from them. We live in a society that tells people this is how it is and this is how you should live and if you don't you will go to HELL. It sucks! but, that's how our society thinks. As for your parents, give them time they might come around. If they truelly love you they will love you unconditionally! They are just sucked into our socities way of thinking right now. I hope my answers help you, Good luck and God bless!
2006-10-31 06:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think life is complicated NOW, wait till you hit college, and have to figure out how to work, pay bills, go to school, get good grades, pick a college, and decide what you want to DO with the rest of your life. Trust me..bigger problems than this will come along, although, coming out as glbt is a very difficult thing to do in life too.
2006-10-31 05:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having 3 teenage daughters myself, life seems to be like it was when I was a teenager, there is so much peer pressure out there today, and people thinking that because you CHOOSE to live your life that way that you are going to go to HELL. I don't believe that. Once your family sees that you are truly happy, and this is the way you want to live your life, they will come around. Good-luck!
2006-10-31 06:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by CaReBeAr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is hard for a teen. Your parents will only agree to what they feel is right for you.
2006-10-31 05:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are too young and dealing with too many issues to try to fit yourself into societies little boxes to be worried over your ADULT sexual identity.
Just be a kid and things will work itself out.
2006-10-31 05:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because high school and puberty are hard enough without figuring out you're gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgendered... welcome to life... don't worry about everyone's opinions... this country was not founded on the declaraton of blending in...
2006-10-31 05:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Phedre D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most people think thats grose!
2006-10-31 06:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by ~*meli$sa*~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
JUST BRING THEM BOTH TOGETHER AND MAKE IT HAPPEN....ITS MUCH EASIER....
2006-10-31 06:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by SHORTY22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋