i am falling in love with my best friends boyfriend and we sleep together
2006-10-31 05:52:49 · 11 answers · asked by care_bear_sugar_princess_hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You might not have this "best friend" anymore. Is he worth losing your friendship over? You need to think about it, either way you will lose one of them!
2006-10-31 06:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by CaReBeAr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just said 2 min. ago that you didn't sleep with him! so, which is it? No matter what, I do believe that you can't help who you fall in love with, But you can control, who you allow you're self to get close to. and you had no right getting that close to you're so called BESTfriends man to begin with.
I'm sorry if this is not the answer you were looking for, but as a women, it's just wrong!
I don't care how great or cute he is, If he is dating you're friend - he is off limits. NO QUESTION ABOUT IT!
I hope that when he does the same thing to you- And HE WILL
just know that you had it coming.
You need to fess up to you're friend. If you really do love him, and he you,then you both need to start being honest. (She doesn't deserve to be lied to, does she? i didn't think so.)
this is not a great way to start a relationship, but sounds like it's a little late for that. so, at least start telling the truth now, there is nothing good that will come out of a lie.
2006-10-31 14:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by dreamteam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that's a serious situation! You have to realize that you violated your bestfriends trust. I think you and her boyfriend need to tell her what's going on cause you can't keeping doing what you're doing and still be her "best friend". Also realize that you're probably going to loose your best friend over this. You say that you're falling in love with this man- do you know if the feeling is mutuaL?? Regardless of that, you have to come clean to your best friend.
2006-10-31 13:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all: WHY ARE YOU SLEEPING WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND'S BOYFRIEND?! You should be ashamed of yourself! He's already taken! There are plenty of fish in the sea and the man that you chose to sleep with is your best friend's boyfriend. The fact that he's cooporating with you shows that he's not a good boyfriend to your best friend. What goes around, comes around so I strongly suggest that you stop sleeping with him now or you are going to wind up hurting your best friend's feelings, your feelings, and her boyfriend's feelings. You are NOT a good best friend after all. Shame on you Miss Thing!
2006-10-31 14:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you shouldn't be messing with your "best friend's" man. They are off limits no matter what. Second of all you need to tell him to choose.. If he chooses you then keep it under wraps for now until she is ok(couple of months). Then ask her later if it is ok to "talk" to him.. And go from there. But like I said you should never mess any friends man.. Friends are an important thing in life.. They will last forever if you treat them right. Men get boring and old.. They come and go..
2006-10-31 14:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by gamustanggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he really worth losing a best friend over? If so, well... good luck and you can "kiss your best friend goodbye" cause she will hate and blame you instead of him! If he's not worth it, then dump him and save your friendship instead! Best wishes!
2006-10-31 13:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by MaggieO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really care about your friend and don't want to lose here then try talking to her and tell her the problem with u and her boyfriend is
2006-10-31 14:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by *L@ Chic@N@* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be fun now but it will not be fun when it comes to light and you get busted. It is only a matter of time!
2006-10-31 13:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by @ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewww
u sleep wit cha bff's man?
dats just plain WRONG
2006-10-31 16:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by gangstayubi69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever floats your boat, but remember, what comes around goes around
2006-10-31 14:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋