2006-10-31 05:47:24 · 11 answers · asked by Pete 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If he is straight and you really value his friendship, DO NOTHING. Don't act on it or even let him know how you feel. You will more than likely lose him as a friend forever.
2006-10-31 05:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by tommygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He knows you're gay, right? Maybe he's not as straight as you think he is. I would just back off and wait for him to make the first move instead of possibly making a huge mistake. Or...you could say sometime when you're out together..."you know, if we keep this up, people will think we're a couple"....and see what happens. But still...back away from the so called straight man for your own sake. Godloveya, honey.
2006-10-31 06:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's straight he's straight. You need to respect that and not force your desires on him. My mother is best friends with a lesbian that has been in love with her since they first me 25 years ago. But they don't let that get in the way of a great friendship. You just have to accept that you can't change them and find someone you can love.
2006-10-31 05:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, do you mean he likes you as a friend or more? If he likes you more than a friend, I say go for it, but, make sure its right. But, if he likes you only as a friend, I would say keep your feelings on a back burner. Because, you don't want to scare him away as your friend if you tell him how you feel or make a pass at him. If he doesn't think of you that way, you could scare him away eventhough he is your friend, he might think you might make a pass at him or he might start to feel uncomfortable around you.Friendship is to precious to lose! Good luck in what you decide!
2006-10-31 06:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's quiet hard situation,specially that if u told him that u love him etc... u might loose him as a friend forever,i think u should try to stop lovin him in that way and try to love him as a friend but if u think u couldnot,then tell him that u love him,u know that he's straight but u cant controll ur heart
2006-10-31 05:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One sided love. Miserable. Thus, forget it. He likes you but not love you. He is straight and will not love you and go to bed with you. This is the truth.
2006-10-31 06:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is falling for you too. Tell him you would like to experiment some and hopefully he will reciprocate.
2006-10-31 05:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurry! find the closest hotel....and get down to business....
2006-11-01 04:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. You don't want to ruin your friendship!
2006-10-31 05:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow bro. That's all I gotta say.
2006-10-31 05:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by i'mJENALICIOUSbabyy360 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋