I'm beginning to worry that something might be wrong with me. Also I've been out on a date once JUST ONCE in my entire life! Is this weird?
Just in case you wonder I've been told that I'm pretty and I don't have a bad personality or anything but I'll admit that I can be a bit shy .
2006-10-31 05:30:10 · 20 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it's awesome. Yeah, it's rare in our culture but that doesn't make it weird. In fact, I think you have an advantage to many people in our society: a purity and innocence that, once it's gone, can never be regained. Purity is a special thing. Don't be too eager to cast it aside. Besides, you're not alone . . . I'm 22, have never been kissed, and have only been involved in one relationship. It's not that I don't get asked out all the time, but I've chosen to not "play around" and to instead wait for that special person. Keep it up and don't worry what other people might think about you!
2006-10-31 05:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by mntrek 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is it weird? It depends on how you define weird. It is abnormal in today's society, but in and of itself it isn't a bad thing. Many people go their whole lives without finding love.
Do you have the desire for interpersonal intimacy, but find it impossible to overcome your shyness to acheive it? If so then it is something you should work on. Otherwise, you should be patient and wait until you feel comfortable.
Personal decisions are just that: personal. You should not worry about what society tells you. Our society today is totally different than it was decades ago, so be true to yourself and let things fall as they may.
If you do feel there is something wrong with you and you do desire intimacy but find it difficult, try a few sessions with a counselor... you may be surprised at what lies inside.
Best of luck!
2006-10-31 13:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by disposable_hero_too 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bravo for you! I'll be 19 in Feb. and have never kissed someone, or even been on a date. I consider it to be saving myself for the man who I will spend the rest of my life with. I dream of marrying a gentleman, and I would hate to have to explain to him that there are 20 other men in the world who have been kissed by me.
2006-10-31 13:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Ciera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird but sparks some concerns of you fear of intimacy. Start first by taking you thumb and your second finger and forming some lips. close your eyes and visualize the person you want to kiss. That will tell you where you need to go to get that intimacy that you deserve.
Good Speed with your journey, Hugs and kisses go along together quite nicely.
2006-10-31 13:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sports Maven 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is weird now and days but back in the days that was normal. just cause every one go crazy at age 14 that dont mean every one does to. it u feeel fine just who u r then it shouldnt be a problem if u havent kiss any one. is not like ur missing out on something out of the world
2006-10-31 13:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by jose m 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you WANT to get kissed, just go to a bar and get drunk and you'll find a ton of guys who wanna make out wid you.If you want to wait for the right person, then i think you're way way better off than the rest of us, coz there's nothing like the first kiss with the person you REALLY love.
2006-10-31 13:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by anon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you....its better to find the right person and wait.....but you have got to meet other people, mingle around a bit and with time it will come :)
2006-10-31 13:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Faraz Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't kiss til out of high school, no good guys to choose from taht were interested. I didn't date til college because i was shy.
2006-10-31 13:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by kellyandpeanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are not weird, u are pure!!!!! stay that way.... i was 18 when i kiss my first boyfriend. and we are still together+ we have plans on getting married. some day??? we have been with each other for 7 years and he waited on me, and still is. just wait u will know its pure with the kiss u long for, please believe me when i say wait !!!stay shi ????7 years and i still cant get dress in front of him HA! HA! we have been out of town on trips everything!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-31 13:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by shismile 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be who you are and don't worry about what society says. When the time and guy is right, you will have it all. Then enjoy that!! Until then, enjoy what you have right now and be happy in who you are!!!
2006-10-31 13:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋