what do you say to yourself
(i mean real friends with the capacity for unconditional love when needed)
2006-10-31 05:17:55 · 12 answers · asked by Eden 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Self, Get yourself up and out of this situation. You are not bound to this natural viewpoint. You are a spiritual being and you have a hope and a future and you have yet to live your destiny to it's fullest. Now rise up and walk out what is to be fulfilled. Look to the those who can encourage me. Ignore the lies that the other speak to you. Make sure they have no basis of truth, and then move on.... That is about what I say to myself. Try it. Keep on Truckin'
2006-10-31 05:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Cabana C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you I wonder?
Don't get too hung up on the real friends part. That as you describe it, is pretty rare.
As for money, the haves always outnumber the have-nots.
Boyfriend? Some womes swear life is better without one.
Parents are I'd guess more of a pain half the time that not.
What you have is yourself. You don't necessarily need all the other things to be happy. There are rich celebrities, adored by millions that are not happy.
All that said, find what makes you happy and do, or work towards that. It may take a while but you'll get there.
Hang in there. All of Yahoo is rooting for you!!!
2006-10-31 05:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Wil T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say to yourslef that even this too will pass. You must keep a positive attitude about yourself and hold fast to the faith and power that you are in control of your life. You take the energy once spent on hopelessness and turn it into a determination on how your going to make money (saftley and legally), be accepting to the friends that God will bring into your life ( if friends are not enriching your life in some way then they arent your friends, this goes for you as well), boyfriends fall under the friend category also. You may need to find another place to stay if the abuse is affecting you emotionally and physically. Try your grandparents, an aunt or uncle.
2006-10-31 05:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by ymeany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the clinical diagnosis.I would say an attitude for disaster.A major red flag for anti social behavior. I would think many will find an outlet to vent. You wouldn't be alone with this feeling though. Maybe individual or group therapy to understand yourself better. Animals seem to be more capable of unconditional love. But they need support and shelter also.I would say I need a pet and someone I can talk to about typical feelings. Maybe there's a shelter you could donate your time with a pet. I think there are some places or shelters for animals you could spend some time at.
2006-10-31 05:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer the question literally. You have nothing. But NOT nothing to live for. You have listed two of three things you do not need and one thing you can live without. The abusive parents is something you need REAL help with. You don't have to have money, or a boyfriend. You should probably focus your energy on yourself and bettering yourself. You clearly have not put too much thought into this. Consider, living for you for a while and make friends along the way. Wait, for the friends to come into your life instead of going into the lives of others. You will find you have more friends than you know. Live for you and regret nothing. It is better to regret something you have done than to regret something you haven't.
2006-10-31 05:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by Which 1's Pink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i had no money not an awful lot i could do we all need money to buy things in daily life with no friends it would be really sad thanks it might be nice to have a boyfriend but i dont so never mind i like my own company last part a whole lot to sort out but there will be an answer somehow lol
2006-10-31 05:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sure you have nothing, and nothing can build a relationship with your parents again then my advice would be to maybe join the army, or perhaps do some overseas voluntary work where you can forget about the Hell back home and do something worthwhile and rewarding.
2006-10-31 05:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by ultrelusive 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you can't say anything to yourself. Jesus is the friend with unconditional love. Go to Him about your problems.. He is always there for you.
Can you get a job? Can you try to get along with your parents better?
2006-10-31 05:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd say it's time to move away and start over. You obviously understand what is right and wrong. I think from your question, that you are smart enough to move forward and start a new beginning without looking back.
It is hard at first, but you deserve to take of that little you inside yourself.
Best wishes!!
2006-10-31 05:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by missy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have hope.
You have the chance to make your "own go" of things.
I had to start all over again when i was 33, but without the abusive parents bit.
I am now very proud of who I made myself into.
2006-10-31 05:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋