i am about to get married , i love my g/f and we have a great realtionship that includes alot of forms of sex... but i still feel myself drawn to look and watch porn at least once a day... is this normal... she knows about this and is ok with it to a certain extent, my level of sexual drive is a little higher than hers and i want to experience other forms of sex that wants nothing to do with, do you think this is going to cause problems once we are married?, all answeres appreciated!!
2006-10-31 04:52:35 · 12 answers · asked by rattagous70 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You should have a talk with her and lay all the cards on the table as to what is ok with her and you and what each other wants. You should never get married with secret desires as it will destroy the marriage somewhere along the way.
2006-10-31 04:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-24 15:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Vesta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-01 02:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I love porn (I'm a single virgin bisexual girl). I used to be addicted to it when I was younger, and now I've learned to cut back and be better about it.
As long as it doesn't interfere with your life, and especially not your sex life, you should be fine. Examples of it interfering is if you decide to look at porn rather than do 'normal' things like interact with people, go to your job, etc., etc.. If you start to want to look at porn more than you want to look at your wife, rather than using it as something extra on top of having her, than it's a problem in your sex life.
If your wife has any problems with it, though, that can be trouble. You should respect her wishes if she ever seems too upset by it- a lot of women are touchy on the subject of porn, which is sad. Just prove to her that you still find her sexually attractive (do not compare her to porn stars!), want to be with her, and give her all the love she needs and convince her that she is everything you want. If you two can find porn that is suitable for both of you (like softcore women's erotica), you may turn her on to what you enjoy (different format, of course), and she may be understanding.
Good luck!
2006-10-31 16:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been with your girlfriend a while and she's cool with it, and things are good now between the 2 of you then I don't think it'll be a problem once your married. Long as the porn thing doesn't get out of hand...
2006-10-31 05:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by ByTheSea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think people sould watch porn movie once in their life time.get more spice to their sex life.but if u addicted to it.u get unnormal.it like watchin titanic goin down in all direction everyday.don't that make u boring.
2006-10-31 06:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by yokey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you have to watch porn once a day there is something wrong with you and you need to find God.
2006-10-31 05:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by shoo shoo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then watch porn with your wife, who knows? You might learn a thing or two.
2006-10-31 05:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by dark&pure? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly its ok to look just dont wander off and forget where you live looking for those desires lol
2006-10-31 04:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can look at the menu, but be sure to eat at home !
2006-10-31 06:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by spartexcites 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋