i have a ten month old brother and he is my world i pretty much raised him my mom was gone all the time he acts like im his mom when i leave to school they say he calls my name all day. everyhere i go everyone thinks hes mine and i dont correct them is that bad? Everything i do revolves around him im only 16 and everyone calls me a teenage mom hes might as well be mine is this a bad thing?
2006-10-31 04:38:59 · 9 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh Honey, I don't think it's bad. I think it's sweet. You're brother and mother are very luck to have you.
I was like this with my little brother and he would run right past my mom, and into my arms when he was crying. I took him everywhere with me. and to this day- we are still very close. We are both grown with kids of our own, but talk almost 4 times a week.
But, don't give up you're freedom as a teenager to playing mommy, he has a mom. what he needs is a big sister. Let people know he's you're brother, they will still think he's sweet and adorable, they will also think that of you,and not that you screwed up you life as a young mother.
I know you love him, and when the time is right, you will be a great mother, just don't miss out on all the fun stuff you have going on in you're life.
Enjoy him, and enjoy being a kid yourself. God Bless
2006-10-31 07:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by dreamteam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not bad, but being a teen mom is a lot harder than that. Once you have one of your own you'll see what I mean. I'm 10 years seperate from my little bro and he's 14 now and I'm 24. I raised my little bro, but at 16 I had my 1st and It was very different, but its good that you a moral support and raise your bro. My ex is the same way about his sis. she's 30 and he's 21! He use to call her mom and she never objected that he was her's, It will only increase the relationship further, but be careful he could be come a dependent like my ex is now! Living at home with his mom and sis and rent free! lol.... Just cause he's a musican!
2006-10-31 12:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by deadgrl6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore what people say....you know the truth, right? ok, then don't let people say things to you that affect you in a negative way. Remember people always have something to say whether its good or bad, and no matter how old you are. So hold your head up, and if your brother thinks of you as mom-cause you're there more than your "real" mom..then so be it.
2006-10-31 13:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by ~Fabulous~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your doing a fine job. Keep enjoying him because he won't stay little for to long. Good Luck!
2006-10-31 12:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no girl, that little boi is lucky he has you you mine as well be his mom that is far from bad. he has somebody to care and love him. your doing the right thing
2006-10-31 12:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its ok nothing wrong in it but try to be practical and do not make him addict of yourself otherwise there would be some problem created in future....
love as you did till now but create confidence in him.....
your love for him should be his strength but not his weakness....
i hope you understand what i mean to say....
take Cr
2006-10-31 12:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by puneet29_12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is ok. This the kind of proud of yourself
2006-10-31 12:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its great that you love your brother and take care of him
2006-10-31 13:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its great that you love him...no it isnt bad...helping your Mom is great..
2006-10-31 12:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋