im married not interest, my daughter is no help she tell me to go for it, , she lives with my daughter so when i go and visit her she is always there
2006-10-31 04:31:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her no.
2006-10-31 04:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man can always put the breaks to a woman. All you have to do is visibly move out of her way if she tries to put a hand on you casually in conversation. You can also use the direct approach and tell her that you don't appreciate her advances and don't find them appealing. Tell your daughter you will only visit if her friend is not there. Ask the friend to leave so you can visit with your daughter or take your daughter out and don't include the friend. I suspect that at your age you are flattered but get a grip on the situation and put a stop to it. Tell your wife that can help too.
Nothing will happen that you don't want to happen. You have lived long enough to know how to excercise self control.
2006-10-31 05:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at present take her to an afternoon holiday spot, like a backside step, or a seat dealing with the wall and MAKE her sit down there for a undeniable quantity of time. (usually a million minute according to year of age) don't be superb approximately it, she would have the ability to no longer benefit something by capacity of you pampering her onto the step, in basic terms placed her there and say "You hit Mommy, it incredibly is incorrect, and you're in day holiday'. Make her stay there, if she gets up at present sit down her circulate into opposite and tell her you have further yet another minute. while the time is up wake her permit you know why she replaced into there, so she is familiar with what she has executed, and he or she could desire to assert 'i'm sorry Mommy/Daddy' previously she is permitted to circulate. Be very consistent and don't permit her injury out with hitting and not get an afternoon holiday.
2016-10-21 01:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this. Even if you were not married, it would not be a good idea to get involved with your daughter's 21 year old friend. The fact that you are married, makes her behavior even more inappropriate. It is time to be the adult here and tell the girl to quit it!
2006-10-31 04:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Bill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh that's got to be awkward. I would talk nonstop about your wife and refer to your daughter a lot. The more she realizes you're a husband and a father the less she may be interested.
2006-10-31 04:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Angela G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to put her in her place, tell her you do not appreciate her demeanor and that she should have more respect for her elders. I would also go as far to tell her that she makes me feel uncomfortable and that she makes you feel like you do not want to come visit your daughter.
2006-10-31 04:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your wife to come with you and ask your wife to stick up for you. My wife had a friend hitting on her through email, and she asked him to stop, but then one day I emailed him saying he needs to treat her with respect. He has refused to even speak to her since. Usually when someone is doing that, they don't realize they're being disrespectful, and when the person who they are flirting with asks them to stop it can sound playful, but when they bring in the other person, the other person saying "Back off," really makes an impression.
2006-10-31 04:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sean J 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just have your daughter visit you. Then the temptation your daughters girlfriend has for you wont be there.
2006-10-31 04:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by xxx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her the rejection hot line phone number
1-303-607-7527
This is a really phone number. Call it. It is a long distance number but it is free. And it is HILARIOUS!!!
2006-10-31 04:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't intrested you would not be here asking us to answer your question. Tell the wife, and bring her with you....why in the H would your daughter want you to cheat on her mom......I think that you are full of dog crap. One hell of a liar if you ask me.
2006-10-31 04:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you said you are married. If so, tell your wife, I'll bet that she will handle it real quick.
2006-10-31 04:35:41 · answer #11 · answered by Kevin P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋