I greatly enjoy being spanked in my bare butt with rubber sandals, belts or whips until my rear end becomes red hot and I can't stand the punishment any more. My greatest pleasure comes when I am spanked stark naked and tied in front a group of people who watch me in distress crying like a baby and begging for mercy.
I myself am very comfortable with my masochist tendencies and do not see anything wrong with that, but I made the mistake of talking about that with my sister and inviting her to watch one of my spanking sessions ( I am part of an amateur kinky troupe which performs in front of live audiences). She was totally taken aback with what she saw and since then doesn’t stop saying that I have psychiatric problems and need help. I must confess that I got a little bit shaken by her comments and would like an opinion.
Is it normal for a woman to enjoy being spanked really hard in the bare butt in front of an audience…???...ShouId I just relax or seek some kind of help…?
2006-10-31 04:25:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Relax and enjoy it, girl - sounds like you're getting all the help you need from the people who spank you. Still, inviting your sister to watch maybe wasn't the wisest move. I'd suggest you deserve a spanking for it - but that wouldn't really be much of a deterrent, would it now?
2006-10-31 09:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Modern-day society would not consider it normal.
But it was not long ago that homsexuality was illegal.
You need not conform to society. I too like to be given a good spanking and to be tied up (sometimes together). However, I do not think that I fancy being the "entertainment" for an audience. If my chastiser and I do it in private, what harm does it do? We both get pleasure from it.
Talking about it to your sister was not necessarily wrong, but inviting her to witness a session without first gauging her reaction was a BIG mistake.
If you want to placate her, tell her that you are seeing a counsellor as she suggested. If she probes, tell her that the counsellor had advised you not to talk about the counselling sessions with any third parties. DO NOT ever mention the spanking sessions to her again, making sure that when you see her, your body is unmarked and that you have no difficulty in sitting!
A little white lie is better than the loss of your sister.
2006-11-03 07:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy --- and do not worry too much.
It is Your life. So do not ask other people...
I like it in the public too --- "doggy style" --- Why not ?
And if we see a "jerk" or some poor person
like this, we are trying to be extra loud and wild.
It stimulates me that much, I cannot tell...
One day I want to watch You being "spanked"... Yeah !!!
2006-10-31 04:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey look at it like this other people do allot worse then just like to be spanked in front of people..So it's safe and it's what turns you on and not you're sister..Have fun with it and just don't involve you're sister or family in you're activities anymore.. What you do is you're business not anyone else... Have fun...:)
2006-10-31 04:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by brutalA 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love being spanked. Nothing wrong with that. I have reached orgasm many occasion. So, relax, bend over and enjoy.
2015-05-19 06:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Bill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not for anyone else to decide what YOU like. As long as you are not harming anyone else (without their approval) then live your life as you choose. Enjoy. If I found someone with that same kink, I would gladly oblige them. Rock on sister.
2006-10-31 13:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't vanilla, which is the flavor your sister prefers. If you are in a BDSM group, you know that. You would have kept your lifestyle to yourself if you didn't want to shock her or get her advice. Can you see how it would be hard for your sister to see you in such a sexually charged atmosphere?
2006-10-31 04:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each their own, my friend. If that's what you're into, don't let others tell you what you can and cannot enjoy. Relax and enjoy yourself!
2006-10-31 05:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax and have fun...as long as it is between consenting adults,I do not pass judgement.
2006-10-31 04:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
compared to me, yes. i spank myself in my room when knwbody knows, becaus my parents wont. i am 11, so i have more problems than you.
2006-11-03 08:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by hyper chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋