My visa just expired.My whole life is here now...I have a good friend of mine,who I really trust.He offered me that he can marry me for papers.Everything would be easy but my boyfriend who I live with for 2 years also wants to marry me for the same reason.My boyfriend and I fight alot and we broke up many times.I love him very much but I am not sure that I can count on him for the next 3 years.He also doesnt approve me getting married to friend of mine.He said if I do that he will leave me.
2006-10-31 04:13:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think that if you and your boyfriend are always arguing and breaking up their is no guarantee that you and him will be together as long as you hope you will and if you and your friend get married their is a chance that you and him can be together for a while and have fun while your together. . . . . . . you wont have to worry about arguing a lot or worry about if you will split up over the situation. . . . . ..
2006-10-31 04:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Monique 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course your boyfriend will leave you if you marry another man! Can you blame him? Why haven't you applied for citizenship, you have been here long enough. If you have to marry for papers, at least marry for love too. You can always work out your issues with your boyfriend, and maybe future husband. Love will find a way!
2006-10-31 04:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry that boyfriend. There are potential problems there.
Unless you very much come to feel that it's destined, don't plan on marrying the best friend either at least until you both want to very much and there is no one in the picture strongly enough to come between you.
2006-10-31 04:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do NOT get married to stay in this country. It's shamful and I would be embarrassed to admit this to anyone in this country. You do not have a right to be here, it is your privelege...and you are abusing it by marrying for the wrong reason. Nothing irritates me more than something like this. If you want to be here, earn your citizenship the honorable way. The way a true American would do it. My grandparents did it. They didn't "cheat". Have some respect. Sorry, but this really ticks me off.
2006-10-31 04:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You may need to change your thinking. Trust and love actually need to go together. If neither fit the bill, then I'd suggest NOT to marry either one.
2006-10-31 04:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee I dont know, that boyfriend of yours sounds like a real jerk if he is going to dump you just for marrying another man. GO HOME
2006-10-31 06:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've lived with the boyfriend for 2 years. You love him. If you were to marry your friend, then you would hurt not only your boyfriend, who loves you, but your friend and yourself.
2006-10-31 04:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Strange1am 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dump the b/f, marry the friend. Perhaps, it'll grow into something more than just "papers". Then again, maybe not, but at least you will get to stay.
2006-10-31 04:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
boyfriend a friendship can change like that. and plus divorce may be difficult. dont play marriage like that in america its still a special institution. where do you live anyway? america? europe? i can never tell who is american or european on answers!
2006-10-31 04:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him go then. You don't need to marry one that will treat you like that.
2006-10-31 04:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by emoody 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋