Okay my fiance's dad is horrible. He treats my fiance so bad and disrespects him and is just rude. My fiance went and bought his mom some rockers which were from his dad. When his dad came outside and saw them, he had a fit and started screaming at my fiance because he said that it was not what he wanted. my fiance got pissed off told him that he can't ever f ing please him and we left. His dad is just getting worst and worst and I can't stand it. My fiance just deals with it because he says that we will be out of his hair as soon as we get married. What should I do, should I hold my tongue to him cause I have plenty that i can tell his dad.
2006-10-31 03:56:53 · 3 answers · asked by Meg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My husband's mother is a horrible person. Before we got married, she would scream at him, his brother and his sister. They would not say anything because they didn't want to make it worse for them or their father. So I kept my mouth shut until we got married. After the wedding it started back up and I spoke up. She no longer treats my husband badly and is a little nicer to her other children. She, of course, is civil to me and starts no trouble with me. My husband thinks that she is scared of me because noone has ever stood up to her before. I say go for it girl. There is no reason for a family member to treat his family like that.
2006-10-31 04:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by KC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it really do any good for you to say anything to his dad? If the guy already is nuts yelling at everything, what do you think he would do if you butted in and said anything? You want him to get violent? Do you have a death wish?
Stay out of it. The guy probably should go to a doctor for a check up to see what is causing it, but until he gets treatment, you should "stay out of Dodge" and not get involved. You will only make it worse.
2006-10-31 12:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his dad is ruining his life he's letting him.
This has been going on longer than you've known him...either he learns to speak up or this will be his life forever.
However this is not your fight...your fiance has to get his own backbone not yours.
2006-10-31 12:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋